2007-02-14 05:05:56 · 9 answers · asked by Dr. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't stress about it being valentine's day - it's just like any other day. Go out and get drunk with your mates, wallow in self pity for a day or two and then do things that you never did before or that you kept putting off. Keep yourself busy.
2007-02-14 05:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by Danru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FInd some single mates and get drunk - very drunk - rip roaring drunk - moan together about valentines, relationships, love, cupid, couples, dating and then drink more - ring work in the morning and call in sick - then nurse your hangover which will feel worse than your ripped out heart and will take your mind off of your ex.
And I promise you that by this time next year you will be fully recovered and hoping for a card in a red envelope to be dropping through the letter box.
Take care and have a vodka martini for me.
2007-02-14 05:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by TreesRGreen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember Valentines day is just like any other day. Just deal with the break-up as best as you can, don't let the fact it's Valentines day bring you down. Hearts mend and hopefully you'll meet someone who's better for you and who will make you happy.
2007-02-14 05:11:16 · answer #3 · answered by jarf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think ahead, next year Valentines Day will be different and you will wonder why you felt life was over.
We know how you feel ,any day is bad to break up.
Talk to your best friends and don`t stay in pondering on what might have been.
You will meet that special one for you.
Good luck for the future.
2007-02-14 07:31:36 · answer #4 · answered by dancingcar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im having the same problem i feel you, we were dating for a year and a half and last night we broke up :-( it hurts but we have to know we will get be ok, if you have any single friends i would suggest go out with them, or if you dont treat yourself to something you find enjoyable or do what im going to do and sit in my house with no tv or radio on so i dont have to be reminded of this "day of love" good luck i hope u heal quick
2007-02-14 05:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by JayNell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOhh thats a sad one..but don't get drunk like other says..its bad for health and mental state also..u will be remembering same time even strongly ...and it can hurt you.. i simply suggest..
1 spent all ur day time finding in shop , gifts. for the girl you liked, with lots of love....and at evening wrap it in good box and go find , a sweet child in street and gif her/him.U will feel great.
2. this vallentine is over now..so try to make new love and stay with it..thinking next vallentine will not hurt you anymore.
3.If u want to pass ur day this vallentine ...gather up good friends (if u can single) and be with them all day/night..u shouldn't be alone.
4.Meditation helps you even more.
5.Play intresting computer games
6.hard but true...deal with the day by remembering ur love...keep positive feelings. say urself..be happy where ever you are.I have no hard feelings .whatever you did was good for you.i am not angry ...lead a very good life.dear...and then you go in front of a mirror and smile.....
best of luck and be happy.
2007-02-14 06:45:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's particularly cruel to break up on Valentine's Day when the world and his auntie are cooing about love and hearts and stuff. But you have to treat it as though it is any other day and sort out your heartache and grief .... the fact that it happened today is just bad timing!
Good luck.
2007-02-14 05:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by gorgeousfluffpot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, man that is crap. What an insensitive thing to do;go out and have a few drinks tonight, ideally have a great bitching session with your mates; then deal with the heartbreak.
It hurts; it hurts for a long time. It affects your outlook on life too. Try not to get bitter...this, too, will pass.
Sorry mate.
2007-02-14 05:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by marie m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen i know how you fell. just look at as a blessing and move on your better without this person because if they truly cared about you they would be with you. move on and live your life the way you want it. don't go out and do stupid **** because it well hurt worse. don't fell guilty because it happen for a reason and just let your heart heal the way it needs to.
2007-02-14 05:15:31 · answer #9 · answered by mommaoftwo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋