i luv a girl & want 2 know whether she luvs me or not without realizing that i luv her 2.plz help?

Question

I AM I BIT RUDE 2 PEOPLE.BUT I TOO HAVE A HUMAN HEART.SHE IS A VERY NICE AND KIND HEARTED GIRL.

Answer 1

If you really love her, put it out there. Let her know and see what she says. If you don't want to do that, you'll have to see how she treats you. If she helps you with everything, if she wants to do everything for you, if she wants to take care of you, she probably loves you.

Answer 2

You can't. Tough. Life doesn't hand you things on a platter; getting the good things in life involves taking a risk now and then.

So, you "luv" this girl, but you don't know if she "luvs" you back. There are two possible situations here...

1. She doesn't know you exist.

Perhaps you're infatuated with this girl, but you don't really know her; you're not friends, and you don't hang out or talk. In that case, what you really want to know is if she's infatuated with you, too. Of course, since you don't know each other, odds are good that she is not. Heck, you're infatuated with her but you don't really know her, and chances are good you wouldn't like her if you got to know her better!

So, go introduce yourself to her, and get to know her. Then you can figure out if dating makes sense, and if it does, go for it. Expecting her to be infatuated with you NOW, however, doesn't make sense, and you should assume she's not.

2. You know this girl; you're friends, or at least acquaintenances.

Great, you might actually know each other, possibly quite well. Still, it's hardly fair for you to ask her to reveal her feelings for you without her knowing what your feelings are, is it? Take the risk of asking her out on a date. However, be prepared for two things...

a) she might say no. You say you're rude to people, and yet you expect this kind-hearted girl to date you? Why, because she pities you? Lame. If you know you're not a great person, why should you expect her to think you are? Spend some time being a nicer person before you ask her out. You might find that life gets a lot easier overall when you're nice, as a happy side effect of all this, whether she dates you or not.

b) even if she says yes, she doesn't love you yet. And, truth be told, you don't love her either; you're just awash with hormones and legitimate feelings that (thanks to the hormones) seem really powerful and amazing. The thing is, you're just a person, and she's just a person -- she's not the end-all be-all, just like you're not. Get to know her, date her, but don't think that your "luv" for her will necesarily be reciprocated, or even that you'll keep these feelings for her as the relationship progresses.

Good luck.

Answer 3

Well I am in love with this guy I have been dating over a year. Sometime I feel he just care about me, I don't think he feel the same way I feel about him.
I think you should just listen to your heart it don't lie.

Answer 4

just ask her!the worst that she can tell you is no and if she doesnt spoil her lol