my good friend stole my boyfriend... what she does not know is that he still calls me and tell me he still loves me... i dont care if he does that but that just means he aint telling her the truth....so i want my revenge and make her feel insecure... got any ideas?
2007-02-14 04:13:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He also tells me im prettier then her and thats why he feels safer with her...i could use this infor for my advantage... i really dont appriciate being played by my friend...im so pissed and i want her to feel like crap
2007-02-14 04:16:04 · update #1
oh she had the nerv to lie to me none stop when i cought her hanging out with him...they were just "friends"....i am soo mad!!!!!! him and i were together for 3 years
2007-02-14 04:17:32 · update #2
she wont talk to me anymore and i treated her with nothing but respect... they are both two timing losers...i just wish i could forget about it but i need closure and hopefully she will see what kind of jerk he is
2007-02-14 04:24:18 · update #3
well if you guys still talk then why is he with her????
seems like you should just forget about the both of them too me.
if he really loved you he wouldnt have let someone else come in between you.
i think you have a lot of learning to do.
if you still feel that revenge is the only way, then slip some EX LAX in her drink or something. good luck.
2007-02-14 04:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all you shouldnt be wanting to "take revenge" that might set a negative feel to your question
But I think I know what you mean, you probably want to teach them a lesson, but let me tell you something, after you teach them a lesson, leave both of them. One is a bad gf, and the other is a bad bf. Just move on off, and leave them to feel sorry about themselves.
Well you can always try to record your phone conversation, and give her the tape when, he isnt around ofcourse, and just tell her to listen to it, write a note and attach it to it, you know, you should be like ''you lost a good friend, and gained a bad bf" Just put the phone on speaker and record it.
If you you can't do that, perhaps email him, and provoking email, and when he emails you back forward it to her, if you realy can't do that, then have an online conversation, and then send it to her. But she might be skeptical if you do that, the phone idea is good.
But make sure, not to continue any more relationships with that dumb guy, and that two face of a friend, after you show them how dumb they have been. You need to find other people to be around, that will respect you, and your feelings.
2007-02-14 04:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by Saphire04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you feel hurt that your boyfriend and your good friend are seeing each other. You possibly feel abandoned, betrayed and insecure. Now you would like your friend to know how you feel by feeling the same way.
Although people aren't owned by others and cannot steal another person, it sounds like your friend did you a favor by taking your boyfriend off your hands. He is lying to her and most likely has lied and continues to lie to you. It's nothing personal, it's just his character.
To make her feel insecure you might try telling her what's going on, or just let things run their course. If she trusts an untrustworthy guy, she will eventually get hurt. The best way to know when she hurts is to pretend to be her friend and then betray her, unless that is contrary to who you are.
Ahh...more details. You can move on, you don't need anything from them to do so. You are hurting yourself by obsessing about the situation. It may take time, but you can have a great life without their permission.
kind regards
2007-02-14 04:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by teach_empathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are both being played by the guy. You can either choose to let a man ruin your friendship or both of you can get together and choose to forget about the guy.
I don't know the situation- I know most friends have an unwritten rule not to date friends boys but... people make mistakes. he could be filling her head with lies about stuff you said about her. Then she is hurt and angry and dates him to get back at you.
Really I think he is playing you both for his benefit.
There are so many possibilities to the situation. Talk it out with her before just listening to him
I am not sure I would ever leave my boyfriend/someday spouse alone with her though. Always keep an eye on her around your mate.
2007-02-14 04:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by momof2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can trying getting him to call you when she is there and put him on loud speaker, so she can hear. Or get him to send you some sexy text message and save it, then show her.
But remember at the end of the day, that guy is not worth it, if you should get with him, he will treat you the same way he treated her.
Remember friendship last longer than any relationship, i do hope you and your mate don't fall out over that stupid guy.
Take care xx
2007-02-14 04:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by Playful~Beauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tell you what dear, if i found my friend and my bf of 3 years lieing to me, they would both be out the door! how can you just be mad at her? he is the one that was datin you you would have thought that he would have told you! i would forgive her before i would forgive him! he did me wrong! and just remember Chicks before *****! And that is my rule of thumb! Besides is revenge gunna make everything better? is it going to make you and him get back together and everything go back to the way it was? NO b/c you will never be able to trust him or your freinds again! your best bet forget it and move on! be mad you have every right, but leave it at that...i mean even if you never talk to them again! who cares...as long as your happy! Hope this helps gl!
2007-02-14 04:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by Mama Boyce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You need to move on and find something constructive to do with your time. In the end it will only make you completely misrable and look like a total ***. As for him calling, don't take his calls any more because he's just playing you. I would call her and tell her to have her boyfreind stop calling you. She does need to know what a two timing jerk he is.
2007-02-14 04:20:15 · answer #7 · answered by PasoBrio13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time he leaves you a voicemail listen to it on speaker when you're in close proximity of your friend. Then she can see that she's got a shady boyfriend. It's not so much revenge but at least you get it all out in the open.
2007-02-14 04:18:46 · answer #8 · answered by MichiganRocks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to under stand the same thing that he did to you he will do it to her it is a fact of life. So all you have to do is sit back relax and watch its coming. Stop taking the calls and don't listen to anything that he has to say if you have to get your number changed. Be the bigger women on this.
2007-02-14 04:19:27 · answer #9 · answered by Charlie H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He does not sound like he is worth the energy or the trust- I would forget about them both- he will break her heart too- and that should be revenge enough- don't stoop to her level-D
2007-02-14 04:39:39 · answer #10 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋