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Its about my husband and friend liking each other. I've had it coming back in spurts. I stopped talking to this "friend" because it was getting to the point where i kept thinking it might have been true. I told him about him and he denies it.I trust him but i dont trust her because she is unhappily married, and she cheats on her husband often.I started talking to her again, but im afraid i shouldnt have, and the craziest thing is that i dreamed about it again this morning,and i got a call from her early this morning for no good reason only to ask me what my plans where for Valentines???!!! HUH...
I dont know if im just being paranoid or what!! All opinions welcome. Thanks!

2007-02-14 04:11:28 · 4 answers · asked by Bree-ana 2 in Social Science Psychology

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Your dream is telling you something. If a friend of mine cheated on HER husband, she wouldn't get within 100 miles of mine! \0/
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2007-02-14 06:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by M J 3 · 0 0

Because your thinking about her and the fact that she's cheating on her husband, and that maybe she's around yours as innocent as it may be, it is stressing you and entering your dreams. Unfortunetly, stress doesn't go away when we sleep. I used to have the same dream over and over again about a waitressing job, that I couldn't keep up with orders, and the faster I tried to go the slower I would get! I don't think it means he's cheating, it's just that your doubting him and her, and it's causing you stress while you sleep. Just talk to your husband, and be honest about how you feel and the doubts you have.

Unfornately, if you keep worrying about it, the dreams will keep coming. I know it's really hard, to curve jealousy and maybe worry you can't trust your hubby. I mean I should listen to my own advice! I get jealous all the time! If you really feel something is going on, I would just watch closely, like how does your husband look at her and her him. If you get the feeling she's trying to get close to your husband than, I would end the friendship. That doesn't mean he's been unfaithful though. See, look at me, originally I just wrote the first paragraph and left it at that, now you have me thinking! Now, I'm going to be dreaming tonight!

2007-02-14 12:20:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

there are metaphysical parlances which suggest that a reoccuring dream is often than not a warning garnered by an individual's spiritual body concerning things that are pending and yet to happen.

in the same way there are psychological schools that suggest that a dream is simply a psychological summation of one's dailly activities be they physical or otherwise.

your situation could be either of both or a combination thereof.

you should as much as you can disabuse your mind of the suspicion that you have built up regarding your friend and try to reintroduce your usual warmth. she is in all ways a sistuh and you would be surprised how deep your being there helps her and her marital dillema.
[this you should do bearing in mind that a person's psyche often than not moulds itself to suit the individual's pre occupation].

you should also not fail to pray about it trusting fully that your prayers would be granted for prayers do work.

not withstanding your religious inclination, it is worth note that once a person relinquishes a burden from his/ her mind, as in rendering it to a perceived superior deity, he/ she subconsciously rests on the issue and physical cosequences of such a rest soon become manifest.

finally, be vigilant, retain your trust in your husband , remain friendly with your friend and yes do not forget to pray in trust.

2007-02-14 14:09:11 · answer #3 · answered by A 1 · 0 0

Sometimes when u are just too worried,u dream of the worst things that may not even happen.It is also not right to ignore your friend just because of your suspicion if u really treat her as your friend.

2007-02-14 12:23:02 · answer #4 · answered by Hi 2 · 0 0

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