I need to know how to be more fun and enjoyable and less annoying around popular people in middle school and highschool
please help
2007-02-14 04:05:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
What are you good at?
This is going to be the secret to being cool and composed around PEOPLE for the rest of your life. Maybe you are not great at something now - but are you practicing becoming great?
If you know in your heart that you are a talented writer, musician, mathemtician, actor, chemist, programmer, singer, skateboarder, painter, debater, philosopher, football player, roller skater, chef, reader, nature watcher, basket weaver - whatever...!!!! If you have that abstract thing which is bigger than one man could ever be - it will exude from you in the form of confidence. You don't have to brag or even tell anyone as long as you know it.
No matter who you are or what you look like - some girls wont be physically attracted to you - but if you believe that you are valuable because it is true - they will respect you.
That's it.
That's the whole secret to popularity.
Now and until you are an old man.
That's why star quarterbacks get such good publicity, because apparantly they have put in time and effort into being good at something.... What that something is - isn't important.
How good you are isn't even paramount - just that there is something.
2007-02-14 04:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by Nicholas J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore them, dress right. (the status quo) buy all the expensive things. believe me these popular people that u see in middle school they will be nothing in the real world. do u think the worlds wealthiest people were popular in school? not at all. they were the ones studying to buy and sell those so called popular girls back in school in later years.
2007-02-14 12:48:28 · answer #2 · answered by wedjb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you're comfortable around unpopular people, but not around popular people? Everyone is just everyone. In fact, one of the things that usually makes people popular is that they can talk to lots of people. Find people that you like, no matter their status, and just be nice to everyone.
2007-02-14 12:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself.
2007-02-14 12:08:52 · answer #4 · answered by B"Quotes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself, and if they don't like you oh well.
2007-02-14 12:19:23 · answer #5 · answered by Patrick H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋