Because my hubby spends ALL his money on his kids..... oh by the way they are grown kids ages 22 to 30......They need this and that and can't find a job and everyday a new problem........aaahhhhhggggg......What about me I work everyday and take care of EVERYTHING with out help what gives??? =((
2007-02-14 03:52:04 · 9 answers · asked by Happi @ss 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Dont get me wrong I really dont want material things just a day out with him or flowers (doesn't even have to be roses) the cheap one are fine, and yea Christmas I got zero also.....
2007-02-14 04:14:00 · update #1
Men don't take hints very well, I know it would be so nice if they could think up things on their own, but if you are waiting for that, good luck.
Before you yell or get mad at him, tell him what you want, tell him what to do in a nice way. Say you know I would really like jewelry this year for valentines day and this is what I want, then take a picture of it and tape it to the fridge, put it on his steering wheel, etc. It may not be romantic for you but hopefully after a year or two with all the holidays we have he will finally get it.
2007-02-14 03:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by mudd_grip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My father is like that too. Just don't buy him nothing either. Kick you kids in the butts for being mooches too. Buy yourself a dozen roses, who says you have to wait for him to treat you to them or treat yourself to a facial at the salon.
2007-02-14 03:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by roxane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly. Maybe it's not so much you don't get anything, but that it might seem like every other day. Since it doesn't seem special or fantastic, you don't like it.
2007-02-14 03:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by Mr.President 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well here's a big cyber hug. Hope you feel better now.
2007-02-14 03:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by icu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOAH.. Now i understand. Do you need a super hug to feel better?
2007-02-14 03:55:33 · answer #5 · answered by DARIA. - JOINED MAY 2006 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband needs to pay more attention to you...have you talked to him about how you feel?
2007-02-14 03:55:26 · answer #6 · answered by kcgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is sad. so let me send you a valentine
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2007-02-14 04:07:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems u're under-appreciated; maybe this is something u can discuss w/ hubby
2007-02-14 03:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by lady sixx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain, its not fair
2007-02-14 03:55:35 · answer #9 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋