Could you really think of any good reasons to stay involved in this world? Yes I have a daughter but she has a father who loves her very much and would probably be happy for me to put an end to me. He would have my insurance money and her. I can't think of a better day to end this misery.
2007-02-14 03:48:13 · 32 answers · asked by :o) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You don't need to end your life, you need to solve your problems. This could mean working through the problems but it could also mean learning how to let them go.
The big wheel keeps turning; sometimes you're up, sometimes you're down. The change is called life and it helps us to tell the difference.
I assume that as you mention today as being a good day, it is about love. Well, your idea to kill yourself today would be unbelievably selfish, but you are only saying it because you are feeling sorry for youself. Get things fixed or get over it, because once you're gone, you're gone. It doesn't help to indulge in morbid daydreams about how everybody loves you when you're dead. People love you now, they can't if you are dead.
Why die when you can do whatever it takes to fix things ? Death is not a useful goal in life, but solutions are. Every day IS a fight, make no mistake about that, but it is a fight that is always worth fighting because the alternative is nothing.
You need to stop chewing over the same old pain time and again because it doesn't help. Mix it up and try to find what does help.
You need to phone a friend, meet up, drink lots of tea and talk about what's happening.Simply saying (or crying) it out loud makes a huge difference; it takes it out of your head and helps put things in perspective. You need a friend in person for this, not in cyberspace.
2007-02-14 04:05:18 · answer #1 · answered by Dharma Nature 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's a little selfish to do this when you have a daughter that still needs a mother growing up. This decision will affect her for the rest of her life. You probably need medication and counselling and can then lead a more normal life. You need someone to talk to, not just emailing. I wonder if you had parents to raise you or a family structure and what that would mean to your little girl. I don't even want to know what kind of relationship you have with her father.
God decides the day, not you.
2007-02-14 03:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a very tough situation. You need to think about the good things in life instead of the bad. Think about your beatiful daughter and how much misery you'd be putting her in if you did end it all. I would strongly suggest speaking to a counsellor about your issues and what is really making you feel this way. Sometimes talking about things can really help you to put a stop to misery making! You still have a fantastic life ahead of you and remember,you only have one life o.k?xxxxxx
2007-02-14 04:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell you that I've been there before. I would tell you that no matter what comes at us in life, things ALWAYS get better. I would add that a daughter always needs her Mommy (in addition to her Daddy)
I know from experience that no rational thing I can say to you will change your mind. But what worked for me was realizing that I did have friends that cared about me-- and I didn't even know who these friends were!
If you can just get through today (Then repeat this every morning) you will be doing so much better than you could ever imagine.
Hang in there.
2007-02-14 03:57:08 · answer #4 · answered by eyedoc999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many things in this life worth living for. First of all, I don't know what you are going through, but I can relate to the pain. Don't let Valentine's Day get you down, these holidays are so commercialized the stores make so much money making people miserable if they are not in love or have someone sending them a gift. You need to realize we all want you here, most definitely your daughter does. She needs you so much don't ever forget that. Please speak to someone you trust about how your feeling, get with some friends, neighbors, anyone reach out ask for help. Please don't be sad - life is worth living for....
2007-02-14 03:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by Martini Babee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, by your other questions you are unhappily married. One never feels more lonely than in a bad marriage. So he's causing you to feel as though the "bloom is off the rose." So just because he's looking and talking to others does not mean they want him either. He's testing the waters. He is not the end all be all. He's not even worth the effort. You've lost your self respect, self confidence and have placed you life in his hands. Big mistake! Stop wallowing in self pity...no man is worth it. That's what I say. See a therapist, take a college course, get out and learn about life... it is all we really know. Good luck.
2007-02-14 03:58:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a good look in the mirror death only brings misery to everyone you leave behind, do you really think that money could ever replace you, in your daughters eyes, it won't you will only hurt her, she needs her mother, to talk to to help her grow, I don't know who or what is hurting you so bad, but honey, really take a look around you, please call someone and tell them how you feel, my heart goes out to you, I will be thinking of you. With all the love of this day you will be here tomorrow to tell me how sappy,I sound...You are a worth while person that deserves to be happy and hunny you are the only one that can do that...
2007-02-14 03:55:35 · answer #7 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so self fish, how about your daughter? When she grows up she will not have her mother there by her side. When she starts dating, marriage, her first child etc.....I bet you never thought of that!!! Any good reasons on why i would want to be in this world??? Because lie is beautiful not only that i want to be there for my son when he needs me. A child does not just need a dad and money to be happy, everyone needs there MOM!! Suicide is the most selfish thing anyone can do, and i dont blame god for not sending them to heaven.
2007-02-14 03:58:14 · answer #8 · answered by CurlySue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That God loves you and blessed you with a child who probably looks like you. There are so much more things to do and see in the world. Travel, own a house on the beach, backpack across Europe, pray to your Creator.
Studies show that 98% of attemptees struggle to live at the last 5 seconds of their life. Which is, too late.
Please make the right decision. For your daughter. Who, everytime she says "mommy", makes your heart soar.
2007-02-14 03:55:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't so it!!
your daughter may have a father but he is nothing like a mother!
when she needs to talk to someone bout boys she won't want to talk to her father cause it is akward and when she has a fight with her dad who will she be able to talk to if ur not there?
Please stay in this world! There are a lot of people that would miss you!
2007-02-14 03:52:48 · answer #10 · answered by FairyPrincess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋