Ok so I had been friends with this girl Megan since 2nd grade and shes my neighbor and we eat lunch at the same table every day but we started growing apart around 7th grade and we never really hang out anymore.
The thing is I have been inviting her to my birthday parties ever since i knew her but now that were not really friends i really dont want her at my birthday.
I'm having a small expensive party with only about 5 girls and i could invite one of my closer friends but i still feel obligated to invite Megan even though i dont want to. And i'm positive if i dont invite her to my party she wont invite me to hers even though hers is a bigger party with like 25 people and all my other friends will be there
I mean we dont talk, we dont hang out and shes not even nice to me so why should i invite her? What should i do??!!
2007-02-14 03:44:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Throw a brick at her.
2007-02-14 03:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by badmitton69 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if i were you i would explain to her that you can only have 5 people, but of corse you should talk to your mom first, see if you can at least have her over for cake and ice cream or something. you don't want o leave her out, just b/c she's mean to you doesn't mean you should stoop to her level! just do what you can. besides who cares if you get invited to her party, like you said you guys don't talk, or hang out, and she's mean to you. so y would you want to put yourself in a position where it is her and her friends, you thought she picked on you bad in school when she is alone...what will happen when all of her friends are around? well i hope this helps good luck!
Trouble
2007-02-14 11:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Boyce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want her there then don't invite her. You said you don't talk & that she's not nice to you so why do you want to go to her party when she has one?
Just let her friendship go & don't stress over it. Be happy with the friends you have now.
2007-02-14 11:52:55 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok well it sounds pretty bad but all you have to do is talk to her ask her if she really wants to come to your party and if she does and she means it you should invite her. if she wantrs to come and you inviter her it will be an excuse to hang out with her more
2007-02-14 12:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by qwerty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋