What do you think happened and How can I find out?

Question

few months ago, me and this guy at my school had an may-october sexual fling.Just to give you a lttle background, he belongs to a fraternity at my university.I tried to join a sorority, got accepted but didn't go all the way through with it due to family problems my grades started slipping.He happens to be the best friend of one of the girls that was trying to be a member of the sorority I almost joined.Now, when I met him, I asked him several times, were there anyhting going on between them, he said no, that she was only his friend..so a fast foward a few months later, I called him, and left him a voicemail asking if he seen my earrings that I left at his house. I told him I needed them because I was going on a date.He text messaged me telling me not to call anymore, and he would tell the sorority members all my busuiness(our sexual relationshiP) if I called again..I said fine..no problem...so I ran into his best friend, and she gives me bad loooks, she doesnt speak anymore..

sorry to keep rambling on...and when I run into him..he basically does the same thing, I tried to speak to him, and he snubs me too..now the thing that gets me is he said he would put my business out in the street if I called him again..I never did after he told me that so I don't understand why he's mad and why she's mad...

Answer 1

If it was just a sexural fling, basiclly a nicer way to say booty call, then why are you worried about it? It was just a booty call. I know it sucks to have ppl look at you like that, but dont let it get to you, guys can be jerks sometimes, just move on, date let it go.

Answer 2

What i would do, ignore them, they are nothing, i mean come on are they really going to be that childish about that! and remember if they do tell ppl about your business don't argue w/ it, b/c if you do they will just think that your trying to cover something up! just walk away or agree with it. i know it's difficult but trust me it works. i was one of the kids that got picked on in school and this is what i did and it got ppl off my back real quick! and besides your better then they are! you dont need them and their games. you can make your own. just don't let your world revolve around them and they will leave ya alone in no time! as for the earings, just forget em! i mean unless they really mean that much to you, if they do then just go to his place and ask him for them, after all thats not calling him now is it? after all a girls gotta do what a girls gotta do! i hope this helps you in some way! good luck girly

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Answer 3

Sounds like you fell prey to the "a guy will tell you anything to get in your pants" syndrome...I wouldn't beat yourself up searching for answers, I'd just forget about this dude and his "best friend".