What can I do for Valentine's Day for someone I love, but he is just a friend?

Question

My husband and I are separated, but we still live together. He has a girlfriend at the moment, but he has told me that he wants me back. I have hurt him a few times in the past, but I have changed and I would really love to get back together with him. He says he can't be with me because of the things that I've done, but he says he really misses me. How can I show him that I've changed and that he means the world to me on this Valentine's Day and every day?

Answer 1

Hurting our loved ones is sometime unavoidable…that’s the way life is, yet to lean on such a fact thinking “**** Happens” or in other ways…taking your loved ones for granted is the killer.
So…back to you again, I think the most important aspect you need to ask yourself before thinking of a solution is the following “How strong was your relationship base was?” Know this well…true love never dies, but a constant disregard to it will gradually push it to fade.

If you two truly loved each other…then there’s still a chance for a rescue. As some may have answered you earlier…”Actions speak lauder than words”, so you can start moving b showing him how much he meant to you and still means…through words and actions, combine both !!! Most importantly, give it time and be happy if a simple gesture drew a smile on his face.

Hope thinks turns around for you as you expect…

Answer 2

When you love someone, you can't hurt him/her. My ex-husband called for Valentine and left a message saying that I was the women of his life and that he loved me forever, he hurt me many times that I lost the little bit of love I felt for him, I wish the best for him, but not with me. When you love you don't hurt, You probably lived with him things you haven't live with othe man, or maybe you met someone that doen's treat you as he used to, but I don't think you can show him you have changed, and that he means the world to you,,,, he needs to feel this. Just move on and make a new life with someone else, just start a fresh relationship and don't make the same mistakes again. THE TRUE HURTS>>>>

Answer 3

U are separated. Your (ex) husband has a girl friend. You both stay together. He misses you and wants you back. But he cant as u ve hurt him bad..
According to me, just give him the space and time. Leave him alone.. Dont bother him. Let him feel ur importance. If he does not feel so, then let him go. No point in hurting urself... Move further in life.

Answer 4

Showing that you have changed will take place over time if you are both willing to give it a try! you must build up the trust in each other again! Start out by dating! do the things you did when you first feel in love. give it time and be patient with each other! good luck!!

Answer 5

Hurt him a few times? Why should he/I/we believe you now.


Nothing that you can do; he's gotta make the decision without a song and dance from you. Now he's got a girlfriend; why not let him see where that can lead. How about that for what you can do?

...once she finds out he's still living with you, I'm sure it'll all work out in your favour.

Answer 6

Tell him u love him u changed and ur not asking for him to trust u right now u want a chance to prove to him that u can be trusted.

Answer 7

I'M SORRY TO SAY THIS, BUT IT SOUNDS TO ME LIKE HE MISSES YOU BUT WHEN HIM AND THE OTHER GIRL CAN'T GET IT TOGETHER, HE FINDS YOU. MAYBE SHE JUST DENIED HIM SEX AND HE'S CHASING UP ON THE **** WITH YOU. YOU BETTER COME CLEAR AND SO SHOULD HE AS TO WHAT YOU BOTH WANT TO DO.

Answer 8

Does Hallmark make a card for this situation? Give that to him.

Answer 9

if u r realy changed u will find the way to say that to him .. by ur love .. ur care .. ur sweetness.. ur gifts.. ur acts

Answer 10

change frienship to love