i have been living with my swiss boyfriend for a year now. we are both 32. i feel very frutrated w the way he expresses affectivity, he doesnt kiss me much, hug or hold hands. even sex is getting scarse and scarser....1 a month and hes satisfied. im latin, not used to that at all. what should i do? is it normal? do swiss men have a different way of handling theur relationships???
2007-02-14 02:33:32 · 2 answers · asked by dear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, probably there are quite a few Swiss men having such habits - but in fact it's an individual thing.
I certainly would not be satisfied with once sex a week, not to talk about once a month...
Greetings from Switzerland
2007-02-14 10:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by swissnick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wendy, I don't think that this is a Swiss trait. Maybe an individual quirk. At your age it's uncommon for a guy to be so frigid. I mean I'm 49 and a virtual horn dog! My wife has to beat me off (no pun intended) with a stick! You need to decide what is important in your relationship. Intimacy is a big deal. It may be time for either an ultimatum or a replacement.
2007-02-14 18:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋