There is a parental Coordinator involved that is biased...giving her all she wants and nothing my son and I want...extra things...she takes him when she wants and I have to get signed papaers from her...he tells my son and I one thing...and then her something else..tells me my son said one thing then my son says he's lying..I have recordgins of this guy lying to both my son and I...then to the ex in session...now ex is being nice...but this is only temporary as she hasd done this so many times before...filing, court, trouble, my son, my job, money, the future happiness of my son and I...WOW!!!!! Waht to do??????????
2007-02-14 02:28:59 · 8 answers · asked by RealEYES 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Start by getting a different parental coordinator, report this person to their superior cause what they are doing is BS!!! Consult with an attorney that you trust on this matter. Good luck to you! I'll still be praying for you and your son!
P.S. I think your ex needs to be BITC#-Slapped!!!!! I can't believe that as a mother she would drag your son and his emotions through this crap again! What a horrible parent!!!! KARMA...what goes around comes around, especially when her new beau realizes what a witch she is...
2007-02-14 02:37:46 · answer #1 · answered by hockey_chick44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(1) you cannot take a SELFISH person and change their colors. That is the mother of your son and he and you are stuck with her.
(2) the courst don't give a rats about children, they are in the business of protecting parental rights and they will do anthing to support a mommy first.
(3) Alaska is far away, I lost the battle your fighting and two daughters and they have now grown up to be SELFISH people just like their mother. If I had a different life I'd just move away with my daughters.
(4) Ask for more than what you want, if you play fair your fair gets negotiated away. I once was given trouble over getting a summer visit with my kids, so I filed for a years visit. The summer panned out pretty quick.
(5) Help change the lawy some day. Kids need sole-custody awards not this shared crap -- it don't work!
2007-02-14 02:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st.. report the coordinator to his/her supervisor. Get the paperwork from the when she took your son away the first time. Document what is going on and get a lawyer immediately.. borrow the money if you have to. Use the recordings you have to prove that both your ex and the b/f are manipulating the situation and have been lieing the entire time. If your son is old enough he can speak for himself and tell the courts where he wants to live. They will take his request very seriously. Good Luck to you and your son.
2007-02-14 02:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have proof then sue and or fire him try to get another coordinator as for mom talk to her get her to tell the truth and record it just in case you could use it against her in court tell her that hes your son too (calmly) that you love him and want more time with him get equal ownership but ask your son how he feels about it but the mother has to be there and also record the conversation but don't let
them know not even the son he might tell someone and no one can know until court time
2007-02-14 02:39:20 · answer #4 · answered by Mercedes aka gata cubana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, been there.
NEVER GIVE UP ON YOUR SON!!!!
It took me a long time. But, kids are very inteligent and if not brainwashed, they will put the puzzle pieces together all by themselves as mine did.
My son currently wants nothing to do with his mother, and my daughter is about to travel down that same road.
Keep DETAILED notes, recording etc etc.
It appears like society tends to favor women even though evidence suggests that she is in the wrong.
I could write a novel on this, but.
My ex let my underage son drive vehicles on busy streets at 13 years of age. Lots of people in the van as well. Evetually his sister needed a ride so he took the van to the mall to pick her up, still under age, and got into a wreck. Hit and run.
Well, she made him out to be the bad person. Would not help him with rides to court, would not help him in any way at all.
I turned her in for child endangerment because she was the one allowing him to drive in the first place and i had proof of that. Then when it backfired on her, she blamed him.
They said her allowing him to drive underage is not child endangerment etc.
4 states away and I have to pay court fees. She made him walk to the court house numerous times. While at the court house he would call me so i could help him fill out the papers over the phone.
She betrayed him several times and it caught up to her. The list of stuff she put them through is very very long.
2007-02-14 02:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by scott in minnesota 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I would suggest doing is taking this evidence that you have, and request a court hearing. Give your proof to the judge, and ask for a different parental coordinator. What is the worst that can happen?
2007-02-14 02:33:59 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to go to the coordinator's supervisor and let them hear about all this, then file for sole custody of your son. this will most likely cost you a great deal but he needs you.
2007-02-14 02:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For ur sons sake give it all u got and fight for him
2007-02-14 02:41:02 · answer #8 · answered by Sophi C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋