With the internet, I have learned more about "alternative" sexual practices more than ever. Some i would ratrher forget.
I am pretty open mined and don't mind a little kinky and pleasing my b/f is important also.
He told me a big turn on is the schoolgirl look. You know the pigtails, uniform, cotton little girl underwear, and he wants me to shave "IT".
Is there anything wrong with this because I feel like, if it's between two consenting adults, it should be ok.
I am willing to do it for him, but I don't want to feed any underlying desires he may have either.
2007-02-14 02:20:56 · 14 answers · asked by Kari 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I've shaved it before on occasions. Wow, I didn't realize so many women did it these days. maybe that's a good other question.
2007-02-14 02:46:34 · update #1
I wouldn't worry. You'd be surprised at how big the "innocent-but-naughty young girl" fantasy is with men, hence the drooling all over girls in school outfits. Of course, I can't read your boyfriend's mind, but I think it has more to do with the whole "she's so young and innocent, and I'm going to corrupt her" sort of vibe, rather than actually finding youth to be a turn-on.
As long as you are both consenting adults, there is nothing wrong about this kink. I highly doubt that it means he has pedophilic desires; in fact, there are lots of couples, straight and gay and lesbian included, who engage in explicit "age play", oftentimes with incestuous overtones of "daddy", "boy", "girl", etc.. Or there are women who play out rape fantasies. Doesn't mean that these people like kids, or enjoy incest, or want to be raped . . . it's a fantasy and a mode that fulfills other desires. Like your boyfriend wanting the innocence factor expressed through young age, the rape fantasy wants to give up all control through being forced, the age play people want firm, loving guidance in their sexuality, as expressed by child/parent relationships. Does that make sense?
Anyhow, as long as it doesn't make you overwhelmingly uncomfortable, I say do it, and have fun. Get into it with him!
And don't forget to talk to him. If you're worried enough to ask strangers on Yahoo! Answers, you're probably bringing these negative emotions to the sex and to the relationship, which will only hurt you in the long run. Sit down and ask him everything you've asked us, so you can better understand him. Communication is key to everything.
Hope that helps!
P.S.- I'd go get "IT" waxed, if I were you, or use delapitory cream . . . everytime I shave, I get razor bumps, a godawful case of stubble, and it itches like the dickens!
2007-02-14 09:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shaving seems to be pretty trendy. Nearly all professional porn shows shaven nethers, so that probable reinforces the expectations of guys. My wife just trims it short on occasion so it doesn't get caught in my teeth and throat. I think her only reason for not shaving it clean is the itching that follows as it returns.
It is not something you need to do, however. If you shave it for him and want to let it grow back, and he tries to demand that you keep it shaved, then he's showing a need to control you, which isn't respectful.
I don't go for the schoolgirl thing but it doesn't have anything to do with pedophelia, nor does having a bald pubic area.
2007-02-14 04:18:50 · answer #2 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, its perfectly ok for you to shave your vagina and dress like a school girl for your bf. It will him satisfy him very much and you will get more attention from him. I also have the same fantasy even at my age of 60. LOL
Yes babes I am 60 but very young at heart.
2007-02-14 03:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he like manga and anime? (Japanese comics and animation). Lusting after cute little school girls is a big theme in manga and anime.
I have some straight friends who love manga and also have this school girl fantasy.
Just go along with it. What can it do? You may even enjoy it too!
Funny, I don't have fantasies about little school boys in uniform. Maybe its just a straight guy thing?
2007-02-14 03:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by alienaviator 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because I'm into S&M doesn't mean that I'm going to beat random strangers. The same goes for his school girl fetish. As long as you're both mature enough there should be no problems.
2007-02-14 05:24:58 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He opened this up to you, so I'd doubt and underlying desires. It's just a fantasy that he wants to share with you. If you have no problems with doing it, go for it. Have fun and then he owes you one.
2007-02-14 02:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Consider yourself lucky. This sounds like a more healthy fetish than others. There's no harm exploring sexually if you both are consenting adults.
2007-02-14 02:33:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it.
Just to prove you aren't crazy, it is best to tape these sorts of things with a video camera.
2007-02-14 02:28:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with that........Most men would agree. Has nothing to do with wanting little girls. And really....cmon......you should be shaving IT anyways.....nobody wants a jungle.
2007-02-14 02:26:41 · answer #9 · answered by allindotcom@sbcglobal.net 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't intend for this to sound rude but....this is the LGBT section and I'm wondering what your question has to do with our community?
2007-02-14 02:27:10 · answer #10 · answered by behrmark 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋