I had been seeing one of my boyfriends for over a year and I really liked this guy,but sometimes he would drop of of sight for two or three weeks at a time, then call me up like nothing happened. I sort of went along with it because we weren't exclusive, but it always irritated me. So, last month I got a call from him after three weeks of nothing saying,more or less, that he wanted to come right over. I never responded because I didn't like being ignored for three weeks.Now, as time goes on, I really miss him.I see others,but still think of him.It's been a month. I know if I called him the same thing would happen and I'd still be irritated by it, yet I still miss him.Should I call or let it go ?
2007-02-14 02:15:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Dump him.If he card, he would not ignore you for weeks at a time. You deserve better!!
Chow!!
2007-02-14 05:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by No one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight....you're seeing other guys along with this guy. He may be seeing other girls along with you. Therefore, because he doesn't contact you for several weeks, you are upset? Well guess what, get over it. This isn't only about you. He may have other priorities besides satisfying your selfish ego. You two are not committed to each other. He has the right to do whatever he wants. If you want him to be in constant contact, then agree to commit to each other and nobody else.
2007-02-14 10:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by S H 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let him go and find someone who will be there all of the time.
You are simply a convenience for him when he has nothing better to do. If you meant more to him, he would show it and be there.
It's tough, but you have to move on, otherwise your just wasting your time.
2007-02-14 11:19:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look baby girl he has some one Else and he sees you when he wont's to and i hope that you are not giving him sex when he shows up
but i know that you are because as you stated you really like this guy look men are not smart you girls are much smarter the we are but the thing is that you let your feeling cloud your mind
HE IS PLAYING YOU DUMP THIS CHUMP
get a man that really loves you the sex can't be that good
love you my sister just think about it you know that we are right
2007-02-14 11:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by the black hand 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go, Honey. It's pretty clear that you two won't be happy together. Meanwhile, from where I'm sitting, it looks like he's stringing you along.
2007-02-14 10:20:11 · answer #5 · answered by Tigger 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump him.
You are worthy of having someone spend time with you.
Move on & find someone else.
2007-02-14 10:20:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me ...
your just his booty call.....
is he in the habit of leaving money for groceries on the bedside table as well?
2007-02-14 11:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by yahoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go...
find a nicer person who will be more caring and not so strange
2007-02-14 10:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by darkshadow300200 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him.
2007-02-17 20:54:24 · answer #9 · answered by duc602 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋