Question on my girl?

Question

So my girl went to a restaurant the other night.. the waiter was hitting on her, and gave her his phone number on the receipt. She showed me and let me rip it up. She said he asked her for her number and she told me she didn't give it to him and told him that she had a boyfriend. But he gave her his number anyway, cuz her other friend is married

Well last night, she went out again with another friend and they went back to this same restaurant. I asked if she seen him and she said "nope, i didn't see him" but didn't exactly talk about it

does this sound strange or should i trust her??

Answer 1

If she's never given you a reason not to trust her, then trust her. Everybody gets flattered when someone hits on them, but that doesn't mean that they will act on it. Have faith in her.

Answer 2

COME ON!!! Your girlfriend was honest from the get go, let your rip up the receipt and is even showing her face back in the restaurant with you, and you are still questioning her loyalty?

Does someone have insecurity issues????

If your girlfriend had anything to hide, she would have done so from the beginning. Cut her some slack, because if you act this way over something so small, she probably will start hiding stuff from you just so you don't make her feel bad.

Bottom line, if you don't trust her, leave her. She deserves someone who will trust her!

Answer 3

Hmmm,I dono it sounds weird too me.I mean she didn't give him her number but at the same time she went back to the same place the next night.

I mean you sound like you have been going out for awhile?So if you have you can tell when she is telling the truth or not probably.If you don't think she is then tell her you wanna go out on a date,and don't tell her where you're going and then take her to the place.

Watch how she reacts the whole night during dinner and after dinner.

Answer 4

The very fact that she went back to the same restaurant shows that she's at least interested...
Is she a flirt?
Are you two having trouble?
Has she been trustworthy up to this point?

What I find most interesting is your reluctance to meet it head on with her...
You could do it in a teasing way...

Guys shoot themselves in the foot all the time by letting their jealousy show, instead of rising above it. Be a bigger person than she is by being completely unconcerned. Ask her, head on, if she finds him interesting or attractive, let her tell you "no" then *drop it.*

Some girls get addicted to the thrill of causing jealousy in men. Don't develop this perverse streak in your girl by taking the bait.

Answer 5

Get over it. She told you about it, gave you the receipt, and let you tear it up. She didn't give him her number, and she couldn't control what he wrote on the receipt. Move on. Just because he hit on her doesn't mean she cannot return to that establishment.

Let it go.

Answer 6

If she did not give him her phone number I would trust her. Maybe she just like the restaurant.

Answer 7

I feel that you can trust her on this one. She told him she had someone and let you rip up the number. Come on you need to trust instead of doubting her here.

Answer 8

Trust must be earned. One big mistake that everyone makes is trusting their significant other immediately. That doesn't mean you should turn into a controlling freak. But, you really should feel that you CAN trust them before making a commitment.

Answer 9

i couldnt blame u 4 not trusting but if u truely love her then trust her but if u starting 2 get to the point where ur truely uncomfortable confront her about it or hirer a private invertigator

Answer 10

I sounds a little strange. But she have not seen him and just dosn't have much to say. Or she dosn't want to talk about him cuz she dosn't want you mad. But I would trust her word.