after sex with my boyfriend my lips in my vaginal area swell up what can this be.?

Question

I take notice after i have sex with my boyfriend my lips swell up it seem like it only happens when he uses a condom iam really scared because iam 17 and my mom dont know that i have sex but since i be 18 in 3 months i feel that i can this is the second time it happen and its really bugging me when i pee it stings so bad to the point i hate to pee help me please.

Answer 1

This could be a number of things.
1. You could be allergic to the latex in the condoms. I would try switching to a different condom that does not contain latex and see if the problem still continues.
2. You could not be lubricated enough during sex and the friction could be causing you to swell. This is completely normal, especially if you are having long sessions your body will stop producing enough lube. It has nothing to do with whether or not you are turned on enough. Go to the store and buy some lubrication (KY Jelly, etc.) and use that once you start to feel a little dry.
3. You could have a yeast infection.

All of these are completely normal and common things so no need to be worried. Try doing #1 and #2 first and if it continues go to the doctor and get treated for a yeast infection.

Answer 2

You already figured what caused the swelling which I think is key. Now condoms have there negatives and positives. They do help prevent you from getting pregnant but the latex they are made from can bruise the vagina lips if enough lubrication is not present. Maybe you can suggest to your boy friend that when ever he uses a condom, he should take his thrusts a bit slow and to be gentle. I also recommend a lot of foreplay before sex so that an early orgasm can provide a good amount of lubrication. Sex shouldn't be painful you should enjoy it. :)

Answer 3

oh god, you need to assert your needs more often.
You have a Urinary Tract Infection. Go to drugstore and buy some uristat. It'll numb the pain for a few days until you can get to a doctor.
YOU NEED TO SEE A DOCTOR!!!! You'll need antibiotics. [I've been thru this before many times]

In the future:

1)Use plenty of lube during sex. You must force him to take care of your sexual needs. You're not turned on enough when you're having sex, otherwise, you'd be more lubricated.

2) EVERY SINGLE TIME you have sex, you MUST pee immediately afterwards. The bottom of your urethra gets bacteria pushed into it during sex. If you wait until morning, the bacteria will fester and cause an infection. If you pee right away, they'll be flushed away.

I acted the same way as you when I was younger, and I regret it now. You must INSIST that the men you date/have sex with treat you better than this. YOUR needs being met are CRITICAL to having sex.
If you are not 100% happy before intercourse, it doesn't happen, okay?
If he doesn't care enough to make sure that you are also enjoying the experience and that you are safe and comfortable, dump him right away.
So, in conclusion: use lots of lube [he's buying it, btw], pee after every time you have sex, go slowly during sex so you don't irritate your genitals, see a doctor. Get your bf to take you to planned parenthood, and since you are under 18, they'll treat your condition for free.

If your boyfriend balks about ANY of this, get rid of him right away, he's trash if he doesn't respect these things, at a bare minimum.

Answer 4

This is a condition called Honeymoon Cistitis..it's Actually very common...its like a yeast infection...an irritation that occurs after sex..almost every time...sometimes the Doctor can give you medication for it..if it does happen every time..the best thing to do. Is to Urininate..immediately after sexual intercourse....also you could have a latex allergy to from condoms...I don't know if they have any for sensitivity..but it does sound like you may have one. I suggest you go to the County health department and discuss things with them..Until you you are ready to Talk to your mother. "But as shocked as you think she may be" she probably be very proud of you if you came to her, and told her you were considering options...instead of coming to to her having to discuss other options...my daughters come to me...one is seventeen..and one is now twenty..it was hard at first to swallow..but I'm glad they did! Good luck!

Answer 5

Sounds like an allergy to the condoms. Have him try a different condom made of different material. For now use vaseline on the area.

Answer 6

Swelling can be arousal, but if you are feeling pain while urinating, it sounds like you may have an urinary infection. You may need to see a doctor for an antibiotic. For now stop having sex for a while, drink lots of water, and drink cranberry juice.

Answer 7

you may be allergic to the latex condom or if the condom had a spermicidal component, you may be allergic to that.
the reason that you may burn when you urinate, is twofold. He may be irritating your urethral meatus (the pee hole) when he is thrusting (or he is overly well endowed), or the irritation that is causing your labia's' to swell could also be irritating the meatus as well...
in order to help prevent a urinary tract infection after you have intercourse, is to immediately get up and urinate after you complete intercourse..not perfect, but it helps...
good luck

Answer 8

You are probably allergic to latex. Try to find some Avanti super thin polyurethane condoms. You should go on birth control also.

Answer 9

Don't sweat it. When a woman gets sexually aroused, her vagina swells... and most especially her labia. It's certainly not worth crying over nor is it "uncomfortable" to the point that would warrant tears. You're normal... don't worry about it.

Answer 10

You are allergic to latex. Have your boyfriend use a condom that doesn't contain any latex.