Today's Valentine's Day, and everyone has a special someone except me. I have been single for a year, and when i look at all the other girls at school, i feel like a nothing. everyone says, is that the girl who doesent have a boyfriend, what a freak!, oh shes nothing with out a man. wheres the best place to look for a man
2007-02-14 01:44:50 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To tell you the truth, having a boyfriend is not all it's it is made up to be. They use you in every way their is to use you. And then behind your back cheat. They start little at cheating then the next thing you know they are not happy with you no more. They think if you are not married then cheating is not cheating. But believe me, it is cheating in every sense of the word. Sometimes it's best not to have boyfriends. Just feel sorry for the ones that do have them.
2007-02-22 01:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by maxine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not go looking for one because you wont find any. they will see the desperation on you and take advantage of it. Wait... i was single for about 3 yrs and am happy now because someone found me and not the other way around . You are not a freak. You are lonely because you want a man not because you don't have one... you friends are very shallow because they need a man to feel happy. Valentines day always make singles feel lonely and left out but remember you are not alone in the world so cheer up. so what if you don't have a boyfriend now you will get one soon.... smile because it is not the end of the world
2007-02-14 01:52:50 · answer #2 · answered by Alise 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh baby! I feel for you! Do not listen to those freaks!!!! School will pass and those assholes will too! Some day believe it or not, you will be on the arm with the most wonderfull man in the world! Most of the people you know as so called popular will fade to the ordinary! You just be the you, and some very blessed person will have the opprotuntiy to say they are blessed by presesnts of you! Besides if you look up the real meanng of Valintines Day, You wouldn't care so much!
2007-02-21 18:36:22 · answer #3 · answered by Mommy dearest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you see, Valentines day isn't all about having someone to be your valentine, it's really about friendship, thinking about what good things you got in life. Friends (and family) are the most important by far. Your just in the same position as me, but I'm not feeling empty because...well because I'm my friends valentine, and I mean not hand in hand sorta or anything like that. So if I was you, I'd ask a friend to be your valentine. Oh yea, your empty cause you think your missing out, unlik other people. Dont listen to those things they keep saying to you, it'll make you feel worse. Well that's my advise anywayz.
2007-02-14 02:41:49 · answer #4 · answered by Eddie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop worrying about this! i'm single 2 ~n~ personally i think Valentines Day iz also single awareness day. it'z the day where single people stand out like sore thumbs. in my skool i'm like the only girl in my grade without a boyfriend but guess what? there'z nothing i can do about that unless i wanna ask someone out but i'm afraid of rejection (like any human).
although it sucks 2 see people with their boyfriendz kissing ~n~ hugging there'z not a thing i can do about it. stop feeling empty cuz if ur still in school ur still young...which meanz u'll get a boyfriend soon enough or maybe when ur older. u don't need 2 completely be sad all the time cuz u think having a boyfriend iz everything cuz it izn't! u don't need 2 worry about people saying that stuff 2 u cuz u should stand up 4 urself.
say: yeah...i'm the girl that'z single but if i don't have a problem with it then why do u? just mind ur own buziness ~n~ stop pointing out the obvious.
really...i think the people in ur skool are jerks. but like i said be4 u can't alwayz worry about not having a bf cuz it izn't everything. when ur in skool the talk iz all about boyz...boyz...boyz! but why worry about finding a man when ur young ~n~ have lots of life 2 live? fill that emptiness 2day with friendz! they're alwayz gonna be there 4 u ~n~ they don't care what other people have 2 say.
get over this sad emotional spot ur in ~n~ have some fun on Valentines Day! boyfriendz aren't everything ~n~ that'z what my sister alwayz tellz me. she sayz that i may think right now that they are but she said they're really big painz ~n~ they're annoying. have a nice Valentines Day ~n~ don't worry about being single.
we'll all be single 2gether! lol
2007-02-14 03:57:48 · answer #5 · answered by Abby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're young! It may not be until you're middle age, but you'll eventually figure out that an independent woman is a treasured jewel. A female is not defined by a man and/or whether she's in a relationship. Life is about so much more than that. You're developing character traits that you'll be recognized for throughout your life and as your peers mature they will acknowledge that you were selective and choose your boyfriends carefully. It may not be the right time for you to have a serious boyfriend. The work you're doing on yourself will enable you to be a better partner in the future, a better friend, better sibling, better everything. It's valentines day and you're paranoid about what others are thinking b/c you're not with someone. Half of those with boyfriends and/or significant others are with them b/c they're afraid to be alone. You probably have more things figured out than the majority of your peer group. Be happy for those in a relationship, but you can carve out your own path. Your happiness doesn't depend on what someone else thinks about you. You sound like a smart girl. Don't be so quick to settle.
2007-02-14 01:52:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Have some pride in yourself. You're not the only single girl on earth during Valentine's day, so this pity party thing is not a good look for you. Do something special for yourself today, and don't worry about it. Your special someone will come along when you least expect it.
2007-02-14 01:51:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are feeling desperate for a man, that is a perfect sign that you aren't ready to be in another relationship. You need to slow down and make yourself happy before you can expect to be in a happy relationship. If you just jump back into a relationship now...i promise you will be single next valentines day too. There is nothing wrong with being single. You should be your best companion...once you get to that point...sure go for it...but for now I think you should slow down.
2007-02-19 06:30:24 · answer #8 · answered by LoveBats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel empty without a boyfriend because this is what you are creating for yourself.
You could have a boyfriend on Valentines day that doesn't do anything for you...Would you be happy then?
You have to look at being happy about who you are and you will certainly attract more than enough boyfriends.
Once I bought red roses for my 3 closest "single" girlfriends and we had our own valentines dinner celebration. It was fantastic - to be women and single and happy with where we were in our lives at that time.
Good luck to you.
2007-02-14 02:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by Roma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You feel empty because of all the comments the other people make. The first thing you have to do is not pay attention to all those other girls. Who cares if they have a bf, just because you do it's not the end of the world. Your best bet is to wait for a guy to show up. Don't try to grow up too fast. Enjoy your teenage years, hang out with your girlfriends. If you have a bf it would take time from hanging out with your friends. And hanging out with your bf and your gf at the same time is not the same. Try to enjoy these years, because if you don't enjoy them, at a later time you will be regreting things. Be patient, that is all I have to say. And don't feel empty just because you don't have a bf. BF's don't fill that empty void.
2007-02-20 03:03:59 · answer #10 · answered by Black Orchid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋