Is it a sick joke? Is it his way of staying in touch? Is it guilt? I would love to hear from those who have been in the same boat.
2007-02-14 01:42:58 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Husband left wife for another woman but he is sending the wife flowers on valentine's day.
2007-02-14 01:49:18 · update #1
he misses you and hes thinking of you -- let him rot!
2007-02-14 01:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I wouldn’t… but then I’m not a piece of shi*! First he left his wife for another woman, now he is sending flowers on Valentines Day?! This guy is a looser and deserves what he gets in life, karma is a bit**! What I would do is one of two things…
1. Keep the flowers and just enjoy the beauty, when he asks say you didn’t get them.
2. Tear the flowers to shreds, when he asks let him know what you did, or give the shredded flowers back to him if he comes to call.
Some times revenge is the best, and it is a dish that should be served cold…
2007-02-14 01:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Without knowing him its a tough call to make.
It could be just a peace offering. A submission of his guilt, and a token of 'lets be civil'
Or perhaps a belated epiphany of appreciation. Maybe he didnt see what you were then, but now, he does.
Its understandable for someone who realizes the wrong of his doing. I doubt hes that immature to rub it in the way you think. Some people would do that, but only a real immature azzhole who would. Only you know if hes capable of sinking that low.
2007-02-14 01:54:34 · answer #3 · answered by Happy Old Man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should not be doing it, as it may give the wife a false sense that there is still hope for the marriage. it would be a sick mean thing to do, maybe he is not done using her yet, and thinks the flowers will gain him entry so he can beat her out of more.
2007-02-14 01:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand this sounds corny, yet the following it is going. I got here domicile from paintings the different day with an apple my boss had given me. It grow to be a blend of pear & apple, and it grow to be the most ideal apple I had ever had. slightly of aspect, i discussed it to him, that i'd like to make certain the position they got here from. properly, he's not any longer the flower & sweet type of guy. He basically would not do presents very regularly, so at the same time as he does some thing little, it means alot to me. the subsequent day, he got here domicile from paintings, and walked into the domicile, wearing an apple, for me. the very similar variety! i presumed it grow to be very sweet, that he would keep in suggestions the type of small aspect. Romance would not continually must be fancy dinners, or diamond earrings. from time to time, that is the little issues that count number. "existence isn't about the type of breaths we take, besides the undeniable fact that it is about the type of moments that take our breath away"
2016-12-04 04:12:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a man, but I know they hard to figure out...if not impossible! I think you hit the nail on the head when you said guilt. Getting back together may also be on his mind. My ex does things like that...and he's remarried! I haven't asked him why, and I don't really care.
Anyway, I think he still has feelings for his ex and whatever his reasons are, it's sick.
2007-02-14 01:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by Pom♥Mom Spay and Neuter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It 's never happened to me however It would probably leave a scar that I wouldn't want to have opened by having him send flowers. Having said that if I were you I would intend on taking it as a kind gesture and let it go just to keep myself balanced about it all.
2007-02-14 01:48:17 · answer #7 · answered by elflocks62 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they have children together and they are from them.. maybe he wants the ex wife back.. maybe guilt... the realy good question is.. did she like the flowers from him....like maybe it isn't really over between them...
2007-02-14 01:52:53 · answer #8 · answered by nurse_driller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like salt in the wound.
2007-02-14 02:07:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do you are just rubbing salt into her wounds. It appears that someone might be feeling a little guilty out there.
2007-02-14 02:40:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that he finds his new woman not as good as you were. A sort of acknowledgment he made a mistake.
2007-02-14 01:48:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋