How do I deal with a stubborn, selfish husband. This man only wants to do what and when he wants.Forget me?

Question

Ok, my husband of 22 years is a nice guy .For some reason he thinks everything revolves around him. His way or no way, of course he is always right. Example, he can't sleep very good at night. Of course he drinks coffee all day, cola up until 11 pm. I tell him it's the caffiene. But of course I'm crazy. He worked alot of overtime (layed off now) save a few thousand. I also work and Paid all the bills for 12 years of our marriage. Which I am not suppose to speak of. He was digging arrowheads.(Tanning, hanging with college students.) He refused to help with anything other than his share of the bills. Keeping the money in case he wants something, he worked for his money. What did I do for 12 years. I worked the entire 22 yrs. Made sure bills were paid and girls were cared 4. I want to join a gym 300 a year, will pay myself. I have a treadmill so I don't need to do this, per him. I go no where but work, store, and home. He doesn't like to do anything. I'm going crazy.

Answer 1

It's time for you to get some outside help. You put alot into your relationship and he doesn't appreciate it. He needs outside help to see what's really going on.

Answer 2

Sounds like it's time for someone "Your Husband" to go to couples counseling.