My ex has told me that he has been in love with me for the last 6 yrs but never told me as I was with fiance. He told me the other night he said he couldnt hold it in any longer. I am his ex from about 7 yrs ago. He left me cos he was still in love with his other ex but then they got back together. Now he tells me this, he said he did love her but he never loved her the way he has started to love me. The mad thing is I havent seen him in 5 yrs we only kept in contact via text and phone as we hung around in the same group and he was always there for me. Things he text me years ago such as he is always here for me etc etc are all starting to make sense now if his feelings are true. I am getting married in 5 mths but still have feelings for him (not in love with him though) things are a bit rocky with fiance and myself at the mo and I think this guys attention is making feel wanted again. My fiance is struggling with new job and I have felt neglected. I think about him all the time.
2007-02-14 00:45:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you should really stop yourself before it's too late, i mean your not married yet and after all these years he's still in love with you maybe theres sometthing there. take the time to think if you're still in love with him and compare your feelings with your fiance' and decide before you make the decision before it's too late
2007-02-14 00:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should supp port your fiance- it i s quite obvious that you will feel neglected as things in his life is plummeting down - if you really love your fiance i think you should be loyal and stick to him- while your ex has sudden change of feelings because he cant see you marrying anybody else- why did he leave you on the first place if he loved you this much - people who love dint leave each other -
i would advice you to stay away from your ex and be and support your fiance because that is what relationship is holding the other when he or she is down not running away - i am sure you must feel neglected- but he is going through a rough patch -
choose your path carefully cause what feelings you have for your ex could be just nothing because he has time ofr you and you are inclined towards him as your fiance is not .
but you cant hold on to the past and start a new relation.
best of luck
2007-02-14 00:58:21 · answer #2 · answered by shadow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, let me say this. You are making a problem for yourself and he is not worth it... You said the magic words, " He left me for his ex girlfriend " what more do you need. It looks as if that is guy is in it to ruin anyone that is trying to move on and be happy. You can have love for someone all day long. Lets keep it real, if you are getting married, then you need to focus on that and stop acting like a young kid, that don't have a clue. Be a woman and stand up for your man and say it has been nice knowing you, but my life is moving on. To bigger and better things. Not making excuses to mess up on your fiance', not fair. Think would you want him to do it to you, and if you are confused about that, then do not get married. The devil always find a way to mess things up when things are going in the right direction. Don't let that happen.
2007-02-14 00:54:30 · answer #3 · answered by ressie re 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your just caught up in the moment with your ex b/f and are finding excuses to put down your current relationship. Don't ruin what you have now because someoen just decides to pop right back in to your life, he probabyly did it to the girl before you and is doing to it you now. Definately cut all communication with this ex and get on with your new love & Fiance. Happy valentines day!
2007-02-14 00:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by Cindy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not in love with him then i wouldnt go for it. he is repeating the pattern that he had with his ex-girlfriend, and is living by 'what if's', like what if you two had stayed together. it's good he makes you feel wanted. there must be something up if your fiance doesn't make you feel like that. maybe hold of getting married for a bit, and when you do have time together try and do something nice or fun.
2007-02-14 00:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that since your fiance is working extra hard at his new job you are feeling lonely if you go to the ex then he will just leave you again sounds to me like the ex wants what he cant have just my 2 cents
2007-02-14 00:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You either love your fiance or love your ex. I know what I would do but that's just me. After 6 years you're outta luck buddy...move on.....
2007-02-14 00:49:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
interesting, but if u have doubts, then maybe u don't love the ex of 7yrs ago, and maybe u are not ready for marriage with new guy, and maybe that's why u are contemplating it, i would postpone the wedding, not for the ex but to think about why u have doubts
2007-02-14 00:48:57 · answer #8 · answered by meme rules 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go back. the other guy let u go for "greener pastures" when that wasnt what he expected or wanted then he tried to find something else (you)
2007-02-14 00:48:40 · answer #9 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out on a date w/ the guy
2007-02-14 00:49:03 · answer #10 · answered by monkeyxcrazi11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋