Was it possible to have our biological baby after …?

Question

It was nearly six years since we married (me and my wife). After two years of our married she was pregnant but failed to give a birth due to unexpected rise in her pressure while she was eight month pregnant. Since then we tried to have another but failed to do so. Her cycle is rarely appearing possibly at two or three months intervals and also in two weeks interval (though it is only once). This day she has never seen any cycle for the last four months. We have consulted our physician, one of the best physicians in the country where we are living, several times. he tried all his best including fertility treatment (injection) but not successful. We are very eager to have our biological baby. This issue disturbs us seriously, particularly frustration come to my wife. I raise issues like adopting but she strongly resists me. Now I am 39 and she is 40 and we love each other. How can we have our biological baby after ….? Is there any one who had such experience? Are there technologies that really help us? Please…. please help us……..

Answer 1

If she was eight months pregnaut what happened? You need to continue to see a fertility Dr and find out what is wrong there is something wrong she should go see a GYN also to find out if she could have something wrong with her, why she is not having regular cycles.

Answer 2

I'm really sorry you lost your first baby. And with the irregular cycle of your wife, it's hard to know when ovulation is. Also she is 40 and although lots of women experience menopause later in life, for some it starts as early as 40. The irregularity of her period should also lead you to think about that possibility. Can you (secretly from your wife) ask that doctor what the signs of coming menopause are and if he thinks that might be the case with your wife? Don't tell her anything! There is no need to worry her without reason because the doctor might say this is not the case. Might be good to check your sperm too. In vitro is an option, although it is a lot money and hassle and sometimes is not successful. I would oppose to it for moral reasons. So another thing you can do is PRAY. There are many recorded cases in the Bible where women who were not thought possible to get pregnant, conceived and had their babies. God can do that miracle for you too.