would u consider if both parties' destroying their families?

Question

i have this friend who is already married, she met a guy who is married too.... their having a relationship, but they have no intentions of giving up both their families just to be together. what they're after was their feeling towards each other. would u consider it already that their destroying their family? no one knows about it except them. but no intentions at all

what if they don't even see each other a lot. they'll like seeing once a month. even they have relationship... what people can see with them are like friends. and they both know, there's no way that they'd be together, they accepted it, only that matters is the feelings they have for each other. no plans on their own, coz they accepted it that there's is really no plans for them

Answer 1

yes they are destroying their families even if they have no intentions on telling either of their families.... and yes one or both will get caught and the consequences will tear the families apart all because of them and their selfish acts.... cheating is just wrong big time....

Answer 2

No one knows about it NOW. It will surface and people will get hurt. The only solutions are to end their current relationships and see each other or call it off. What goes around comes around. They WILL get caught sooner or later.

Answer 3

Someone is going to get hurt, They always do.
I know they want to be together, and think no one
is going to find out. But what will happen when they do.
The pain is awful, all the heartbreak they feel. Sometimes
the kids never get over it. when they find out. I think they
will find out.

Answer 4

eventually these people are going to want to be together, they are going to want more, they will stay as long as they can with their families, but after awhile families will get destroyed, hearts will get broken, and they will eventually be together, and after awhile they won't be able to hear their conscious telling them anything.