Why does my boyfriend find the xbox more interesting then me?

Question

My boyfriend of 3 years will play his xbox every night, i could sit there naked and he wouldn't even notice, could some one please tell me why this thing is more exciting?

Answer 1

Same thing with my man, except that it's computer games. (mainly RP games). I could tell him the world was ending and he wouldn't hear a thing. That's just how some men are. Try to see if you guys can find games to play together. Make sure he knows how you feel about it too. Whatever you do don't criticize....that will get you nowhere. Good luck Hun, I and many other women are with ya on this one.

Answer 2

I'm not sure it's more exciting but he's really getting into the games. Probably a little too much if he's actually ignoring you.

guys will get that way when they have a game or something they're really into they will pursue that for the rest of the night and beyond if you let em.

Take him for a walk. Get both of you out and let him know that the xbox is OK but you're better.

Answer 3

Guys love games with action and adventure, girls love chit-chat. Were natural opposites. Y we get put together is the 8th wonder of the world. Try hiding his Xbox that might help & ask him yourself

Answer 4

when he gose to put the tv on to play give him a very suductive dvd instead if he still puts on the xbox put on your coat and leave the end of the day hes a man but no man can resist a good time watchen a bit of you know what expecialy with his girls concent

Answer 5

I have that prob too, start a convo, or get out of the house.
Set up a date night , no t.v , just you two, he feel's like he's wooed you , and now his job is done. So yeah , set up a date night , for ex. friday night . Do something cool, like an arcade or something.Hopefully this help's you out.

Robin

Answer 6

this is a two stage answer don't take offence.

1, your a munter. no offence meant by the way.
2, he a child, gay or very sad if your not a munter.

Throw the xbox from the highest window in your house.

Answer 7

you have to get serious and tell him that it is affecting your relationship in a big way and making you feel inadequate and unwanted. stress how important this is to you. if a couple don't spend quality time with each other it spells the end. sad but true. tell him thats the case and if he doesn't buck his ideas up tell him you are considering leaving him. he might realise then what he is about to lose if he doesn't change his ways.

Answer 8

I love to play my PS2. You have to let him enjoy what he like.
What about spend some time with him playing Xbox. Then he will do the same for you. My girlfriend spend time with me when I am on PS2. We have great fun

Answer 9

he doesn't know what he's got with you by the sound of it!! maybe you should turn the tables on him and when he wants something, ignore him. Or try saying no t.v. or anything one night and just have a hot passionate night, or just go out a few nights with your mates and show him what he's missing.

Answer 10

my partner is exactly the same way and i can relate to how you feel, it makes you feel unloved and like they care more about the xbox then you

He is not doing it to hurt you, my partner sees it as 'his time' maybe when he is on this you could have 'your time' of relaxing i tend to have a long soak in the bath or read a good book.

if it really is that bad i suggest sitting him down and talking to him and maybe coming to a solution where he is not on it as much, my partner goes on it when i am in the bath or watching a programme he doesn't like, he realises now that i saw it as time we could be spending together.

remember everybody needs time to do their own thing as long as it is not all the time, take advantage of it and do something you love to do, trust me sometimes you need that little time to yourself, its what keeps us sane!! good luck