I am an Indian girl and considering marrying some NRI in the US. What are the risks involved in it? and how to enure tha I am safe and with an honest person.
2007-02-13 22:32:07 · 11 answers · asked by Timsy A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hello,
Your question interests me...as a dear friend of my husbands (a NRI in the US) is currently engaged to a girl in India, and will eventually bring her back to the US too live. I know he is a kind and loving man who will look out for his new wife in every way possible. When travelling from home there is always some risk involved ... a new country is always quite scary firstly you will need to learn too speak english (fleuently) ... keep in touch with family ..... do not lock your self away, become a part of the community, its the quickest way to learn the culture (and better for you) .... above all else discover the person you are with .... it is very easy too see the very WORST in people. The US is a great place and can offer you freedom and experiences you wouldnt otherwise have. Migration carries the same risks in any country but people of similar cultres tend too stick together and give each other suport. Find women such as yourself and community groups and you will be fine!
From Sueanne
Much Love and Good Luck
2007-02-17 15:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by SuzyQ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there is no guarantee in arrange marriages, wheather NRI or local, I'd say just make sure that u guys are talking to each other on daily basis, have a check on his attitude, look how he responds & other many things, well, i kno my very near frnd who was NRI, who had pressure for marriage in selecting a girl before 2005 Dec, so he said yes to the one (though he didnt like her also for marriage), & now before the end of 2006, they are seprate, i am not saying this will happen to u, but make sure that the person is genuine & respect ur feelings, parallely, het for an HIV test defintely.
2007-02-14 17:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No real way to ensure that your husband will be a good person, you can talk to other people about him to get an idea, but you never know till you get married.
I wouldn't worry about safety. You are probably nervous about being far from home where you don't know people, but the US laws have many provisions to help protect people living here. Eg, you can call 911 from any phone anywhere in the country and the police will come in a few minutes. The Indian embassy and many local Indian organizations have programs to help women in trouble with their husbands, they will contact your relatives in India and arrange for flight back if you request it.
If you have no other objections, go ahead and marry him. You will like it in US, I promise.
2007-02-14 04:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by growing inside 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are different variables which you're ignoring different than a rustic permitting arranged marriages or no longer. generally, those societies even have rules making divorce very perplexing. in addition they view women human beings as subversive to adult men to the factor of being sources in some cases. In different words, a divorce cant ensue except tha guy says that's ok. In those countries that have arranged marriages you will no longer locate gender equality in any respect. women human beings have not got a voice nor a vote. maximum of those arranged marriages are no longer in accordance with character of the couple, however the advertising of the girl to the guy or guy's kinfolk. Doweries are nonetheless very lots used in arranged marriages. They arent taking the hobbies of the girl into consideration (in maximum situations), they only p.c. her out of the homestead. basically via fact there are arranged marriages, it does not propose that the relationship is a wholesome one. -sturdy success
2016-10-02 03:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by alarid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know the person through any relatives or u have selected the guy by internet or something. if u know the person and if u have anybody in that country for u get correct information about the guy then taht is good. u must have a reliable person to get the information about the guy preferrably ur blood relations. get all the info analyse and take the decision. all the best.
2007-02-15 05:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats a NRI? you are not guaranteed and honest person and that is the chance you have to take, How long have you known this person he could be a psychopath,
2007-02-13 22:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no problem, u need to trust ur ..... for safety u can just carry Indian embassy contact # + some $ in hand (1000minimum, but don't tell ur ......) .. this can be kept safely till u get a confidence on him.........
but one thing never let him know about ur safety precautions in future till u die... this may him hurt badly.........
2007-02-14 01:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by Racingred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you not confident than don't get marry. Be confident you'll can survive anywhere in this world.
2007-02-14 03:24:55 · answer #8 · answered by yogasun2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best suggestion other take it or leave it before you think about your marriage tell your futher hubbi to go for a medical check for HIV....................if you dont you have a direct ticket to heaven.
Best of luck ha .........ha
2007-02-13 22:44:37 · answer #9 · answered by blk man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O boy that's a tough one. Go slow be very careful.
2007-02-13 22:41:45 · answer #10 · answered by Tom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋