It's not the stuff I am interested in, it's just the gesture...when I say nothing, I mean nothing, and we've been together for 4 years now........and I know with his past gf he gave them stuff...and was on top of all of that..me..never
2007-02-13 22:24:14 · 10 answers · asked by avie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Most men will actively avoid trying to give a gift if they're afraid of the gift being rejected or if they're afraid of being rejected themselves.
If you've ever made a comment about something in a negative way, that can be rejection. Even if you didn't mean it that way it still hurts.
I hope something will change for you.
2007-02-13 22:33:33 · answer #1 · answered by David W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't maybe it cud be financial probs.
Ask him teasingly maybe you get to know.
And a gift for entire relationship of marriage ,he has already given don't you realise that miss,he has married you and is yet with you for that 4 years,be thankful to one another.
2007-02-14 06:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie your husband did give you a gift..He gave you his heart..and He chose you as his wife.Maybe he feels that his love is the only gift you need.You should talk with him.
2007-02-14 06:30:31 · answer #3 · answered by MarineWife03 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are different.
However, he gave to his gf. Ask him why you do not get any.
This does not automaticly mean that he loves you less.
Many men cannot express there feelings, it was part of their upbringing.
btw: do you give him presents?
2007-02-14 06:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by Swtf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd ask him, sounds weird to me - though, if you're not interested in that kind of thing, then he's probably thinking that you don't care so therefore he doesn't bother.
2007-02-14 06:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by ForeverAnAngel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all teach people how to treat us...............apparently over the past 4 years not giving you a gift has been acceptable......
2007-02-14 06:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband has been treating you like a doormat all this time for one reason only: You have been letting him get away with it.
2007-02-14 06:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him to see what his excuse is..
2007-02-14 06:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by Denny O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you marry him then?
2007-02-14 16:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why....I would...
2007-02-14 06:27:58 · answer #10 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋