My wife and I have been apart for almost a year now and I have been trying to get her to come back home and work things out. It seems I been putting all the effort. I send her e-mails to her job she never respond to them unless I call to ask if she received it.
She tells me she will call be back but never does only when she feels like it. She states she is busy at work but when we were together it was not like that, she made time.
She has a son which I did not get along with so she stated she had to choose between him or I.
I stopped by her job today to drop off a valintine days gift and card and she stated she will give me something on tomorrow before she leaves tomorrow night to go to India.
I have not gone out in a year or tried to meet anyone else and I do not know what to do because I am 37 and I am tired mentally and physically trying to make things work.
She give me money to help with rent sometime or if I need money but the question is, Should I move on?
2007-02-13 22:09:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Move on...
2007-02-13 22:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should sort yourself out and then maybe in a few months go back and see what things are like between the two of you. When women's kids and bf/husband don't get on it is major stress for the woman in the middle. Go out get friends and your own life tell her you will stop hassling her and try to sort your life out. You never know maybe in a few months you won't want her either if you get yourself new friends and a great social life!
2007-02-14 06:16:48 · answer #2 · answered by catherine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely need to move on, stop waiting for something to happen because if she has been away this long and she cose her son over you she is not coming back.Chances are she is with someone else, and she is not gonna ruin what she has to go back to you..You have to face reality Move On.
2007-02-14 06:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by Denny O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD TRY TO DO SOME THINGS WITH HER SON AND TRY TO GET ALONG WITH HIM. I'M NOT SAYING LET HIM WALK ALL OVER YOU BUT TRY TO DO THING WITH HIM. I DON'T KNOW HOW OLD HE IS OR WHAT THE PROBLEM IS BUT I AM SURE IT CAN BE WORKED OUT. GOOD LUCK.
2007-02-14 06:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by CNT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should move on, it doesn't look like she's interested in getting back together with you.
Good Luck
2007-02-14 06:19:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i would move on quickly....This lady has no cares in the world....Let's see she don't respond to your e-mail she don't respond to your calls she says she will call but never does...yup im convinced its OVER Please do your self a favor and move on
2007-02-14 06:13:52 · answer #6 · answered by futurecreationsusa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, don't waste another year of your life on someone that clearly does not have time for you. Good luck
2007-02-14 06:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please move on.
SHe's not responding to your emails unless you call her about them. She's not making time like she used to and doesn't follow-up when she says she's going to call.
She's not helping you by being this way. It's cruel of her not to say 'leave me alone'. I'm sorry to say that's likely what she's thinkng.
2007-02-14 06:14:45 · answer #8 · answered by David W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is 22222222 long
but if u love your wife
than ya u can definately
trust her and would find the answer from yourself
from your heart
2007-02-14 06:11:39 · answer #9 · answered by Spicy Ketchup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should move on......doesn't sound as if she is that into you any more.....
2007-02-14 06:11:59 · answer #10 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋