i am a 18 year old boy. sometimes i get feeling of opposite sex .It gives mental pleasure to me .Is this normal or abnormal
whether this kind of thinking change my gender
2007-02-13 21:54:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
This isn't a learned behavior, so don't think you "did something wrong"!
A lot of men enjoy feeling beautiful...whether that means keeping it in the closet and just trying on their wife's clothes or oging all the way to post-op trans. Find your happy medium!
Trust me, there is nothing wrong with you! If it makes you happy, do it! It isn't hurting anyone else...
Best of luck!
2007-02-13 22:00:39 · answer #1 · answered by TheAnswerChicks 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know what the percentages are, but i would assume less than 1% of the world feels that they are stuck in the wrong body in terms of sex or gender role.
i have often thought i was a woman trapped in a man's body, and at 33, i have finally decided it is time to take action and do something about it...
the biggest question should be your role in sexual activity. are you comfortable using your penis to have sex? or does that seem totally awkward?
try to find a gender therapist to talk to about your feelings and they will help you decide whether or not a change of sorts is needed to make you happy..
2007-02-14 04:47:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you if you are or aren't, its a decision you have to come to yourself. If your questioning your gender perhaps you should seek out some information to help you decide if you are or aren't. I know there are many groups for people questioning their gender on myspace, livejournal, and on yahoo groups. Also you might want to try searching for some personal websites about transitioning. This isn't a decision to take lightly so please take your time and make sure this is the road you want to take, its a very long and sometimes painful road to take.
2007-02-14 01:53:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still too young and exploring your soul and body. This is normal about these ages. You just have to give time to yourself. Don't just rush to give a decision. You will figure it out when the time comes.
2007-02-14 20:32:25 · answer #4 · answered by goncae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your time kiddo its a long hard road for a sex change and it costs alot of money.. it an'it like getting a new car or something haha. take your time cause your a young kid and you have your life ahead of you. but if you want to do it dress right or i'll take you back to the store to do it again haha. love you kiddo
2007-02-13 22:35:21 · answer #5 · answered by ♥lois c♥ ☺♥♥♥☺ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you don't ever feel bad or guilty about the way you feel. You are young and lots of things can come from this, but wherever it takes you, except yourself unconditionally.
Krismio
2007-02-13 22:04:34 · answer #6 · answered by krismio 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I don't think human sexuality of this nature is abnormal..but I really think you need a transgendered person to answer this for you. I'm gay --but that's not the same at all.
2007-02-13 22:05:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
not quite sure I fully understand the question, but just sounds like you are confused. If the urges are strong enough, try crossdressing, It isn't going to hurt anything.
2007-02-14 07:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by JML 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seek a counselor or a doctor. maybe you are dreaming and thats all. if you are leaning in that direction, seek help asap to let you make all of the right decisions as well.
2007-02-13 23:02:48 · answer #9 · answered by cadaholic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your gender is determined by which set of physical organs you have, not by how you feel.
Questioning how you feel is the first step down a long road of self-emasculation and self-destruction. You feel what you feel. Nothing to be guilty or self-conscious about.
2007-02-13 22:02:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋