Like for instance: I pretty much keep to myself, I have few hobbies/interests and I don't know anyone in the city/area (Hobart) I've lived my whole life, other than people who gave me a hard time at school who I don't associate with.
Contrary to popular culture, I'm not really a drinker either.
I suppose people can perhaps exclude/judge you because of that.
Mind you I'm not religious either, although I have been in churches when I was much younger (growing up).
I just feel as though all I'm too (for) to society is as a consumer.
Now that I'm ineligible from being a student at uni this year (for 2 semesters) due to personal problems which affected my studies last year, when "O Week" happens next week (Feb 19 - 23) I'll probably be ineligible from being able to join any TUU Sports or Societies (groups) as well.
2007-02-13 21:38:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
P.S.
I think one other thing is that I find it hard to relate to people around my age/demographic.
2007-02-13 21:55:19 · update #1
Look go to a Dr and seek help maybe your depressed or have social anxiety. Stop making excuses for yourself and gooooooooooo or things will never change
2007-02-13 21:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl143_dk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you need is the military my friend. I would normally suggest traveling as a better way of finding ones self, but you have a serious case of complacency, apathy, and apparent lethargy. Which the military will cure you of. You can also gain a lot of practical training and education in the military, and travel. I'm not a professional, but you don't drink, you have no friends, no hobbies... I'm trying to picture you on an average day, come home from work... what do you do when you come home? You must do SOMETHING!! Even if its TV or your computer, you must do something, if you're literally just sitting staring at the wall, seek help. However, if you chose not to join the military, I would get a membership at the gym, start working out every other day, get ripped, and get a dog. Good luck. Life is what YOU make of it my friend. This is as much a choice as is not doing it.
2007-02-13 21:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Pink 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whatever you do, please do not quit, and think that you just cannot be helped....there are so many people out in this small little world,,that haven't had a chance to meet YOU! yet!!!
GIve yourself more leeway...you are good enough to get out there, and meet a nice, intelligent, interesting conversationalist...you just haven't gotten there, yet..but you will find a way...because the "inner" you is really yearning for some ":growth and change" now....you gotta go for it!!
Just leap...take a wild fun leap, and remember, this is a "present" for you!! You are doing this for you!!! Treat yourself, to meeting other interesting people like yourself! You really do deserve it!
Be yourself,...you don't have to be a drinker...and religious...there are so many people to mingle with...if somebody makes you feel bad about what you feel inside...they are NOT worth you efforts and time..they are not for you!
Just keep being yourself....because most people like the real person inside...and that ain't no baloney!
2007-02-13 22:13:45 · answer #3 · answered by ladyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy for a young man you spend a lot of thought on yourself. I would say that if you could turn that around and gt involved in some community project you will do far better in life and also have the excuse you seem to need to give yourself to get out of the house and get involved.(In other words stop contemplating on your own navel)
Look into what interest groups, hobby groups, volunteer organisations, and the like are in your area and dedicate some time every week to at least one group.
if you see yourself as a consumer then you may need to find something that enables you to give. there is enrichment in giving.
there are a whole range of groups and organisations that you can join from historical societies (tons of those in Tassie), land regeneration groups, organisations that help the homeless, organisations that help young families, all kinds of things that you can do to help the world around you.
2007-02-14 07:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You really sound as if you have done a job on yourself. First off, do not let anyone define you. You are who you say you will be. Try to get as good an education as you can. Attend more social functions. Church is a good place to meet someone, and remember, you are your own best friend. If you do not like yourself, how can you expect anyone else to like you. Man you are just 24 years old and have at least 50 more good years, if you are like this at this age, then life is going to be a drag. Remember one thing, people who are social butterflies are not necessarily happy. I think they are searching for something, because as I said, YOU ARE YOUR OWN BEST FRIEND. Good luck.
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2016-11-03 10:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. join is a college or
2. get into some course and involve speakin wit group
3.get into some part time jobs wer u can find many contacts
2007-02-13 21:56:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop complaining and get a life. Live your life be free and you are much more lucky than me. I don't have a life because i am condemned by corrupted and dirty government officers of my country. U should consider yourself very very very lucky....so get a life and enjoy! Enlarge your life circle of anything u wanna to do...
Do u wanna to trade in your life with my life? hhaha I am from Singapore.
U can ask around in Singapore possible get fake answer so best of all spy to know truth fact of what I am talking about!
Therefore u are indeed very lucky to have a life of your own.
Oh yes watch your back who are really your friends and who are not because u never know who is going to sell u away for their own luxury life like they did to me before...
2007-02-13 21:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
we are very much the same. i hope we can help each other, by the way i'm flongkoy, 19
2007-02-13 22:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take up an MMORPG. There's thousands of people like that there.
2007-02-13 21:47:00 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Keen 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋