Or am I just with the wrong women?
2007-02-13 21:33:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
First and foremost...I used to love Valentine's Day, but I met a man who doesn't believe in it. He showed me that your love should be shown everyday, not just V-day! He changed my mind...
I think it is silly if you don't get a reciprocal present! This isn't just a women's holiday! It about love between TWO people.
I sure hope that your hunny gets you something sweet! Good luck!
2007-02-13 21:40:57 · answer #1 · answered by TheAnswerChicks 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't expect people to give you something, be generous and try to make others to feel special than eventually it will return to you.
And it doesn't matter if it's your girlfriend or just a friend.
I wonder if you gave her something for Valentine's day. If you did than it will be a different story if not than do not expect anything from her as well.
Valentine's day is about love, not about presents, cards or money.
How did you spend this day? Have you been together? Did you show her that she is important to you and you love her very much?
We all look for afirmation of love from our partner. Remember that if you will treat her right she will never leave you. :) Valentine's day is just another chance to show how much you care about person you love. Every day life is an every day chance to show your love to your partner. :) Don't wait for a holiday.
I'm not talking about spending money on presents every day...lol
Some people grew up in the families where nobody give any presents for Valentine's day or didn't show any affection. So may be this is the case with your honey?
Or may be she just tired of Valentine's hype? Is she really greatful for your attention, love or a present? How about "thank you so much dear"? If she never say this words she can be a selfish person and your relationships will be "one way road". It's not gonna work. Or may by she is just very shy?
Or may be she doesn't have any clue what to give you?
You can let her know any time what you like: what kind of cards, chocolate, etc.... Let her know these little details when you walk thourhg the store together, just admit how funny this card is or how cute this teddy bear, etc... :) Girls sometimes having difficulties with choosing a present for a guy, remember, we are all different.
For example, I don't like chocolate but if I won't let my boyfriend know that he will give me a box of it... LOl
Never damand anything or make her buy stuff for you
or expect her to give anything to you, surpirse will make you happier.
Smile, life is good.
Happy Valentine's Day to you!! :)
2007-02-14 08:03:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anyuta M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have been with the wrong women...I have always given a gift(s) to a boyfriend. Today, I gave my boyfriend a guy harvey tee-shirt, james patterson's new book "step on a crack" and a 50.00 gift card to home depot...I also gave him a bouquet of real roses minus 1 fake one that read in the note...I will love you unitl the last rose dies!!! I hope you find a woman that will shower you with gifts!!!
2007-02-14 13:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys should always get gifts, at least little ones to show that their chick cares on valentine's day! I dont have a bf but I got my best guy friend some chocolate, a car magazine and a candle. yay.
2007-02-14 05:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by Minty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always give gifts to my bf every V-day.This year I gave him 4 different gifts :) Maybe you choose wrong women.
2007-02-14 05:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by goncae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're with the wrong women.
2007-02-14 06:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u r with the wrong women
2007-02-14 05:42:34 · answer #7 · answered by Cinderella 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you're with the wrong women.
that knowledge is my valentines gift to you hehe.
why don't girls get gifts at christmas or valentines?
or am i with the wrong man?
2007-02-14 05:42:52 · answer #8 · answered by jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More rampant sexism... there are fewer guys than gals in the world. So from now on, women have to do the chasing. You want to date me? Give me money, kiss my butt, do everything for me, then Ill cheat on you with your best friends.
OOOops channelling my ex wife :D
2007-02-14 05:42:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Some do.
2007-02-14 05:42:50 · answer #10 · answered by Deep Thought 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋