My girlfriend works in a public place.. how should i feel if she receives many valentines cards from other people ???(secret admirers etc)
2007-02-13 21:15:46 · 15 answers · asked by Panoulis 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
pretty good, it means you must be lucky to have her.
2007-02-13 21:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by Sporadic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are confident in your relationship with your girlfriend, and confident of her feelings for you, then it shouldn't really bother you at all. She works with the public and is bound to have customers who become friends, and they will want to give her a card or a flower as thanks. That is normal. Now in the case as a secret admirer, I see no problem with that either, unless she herself looks into it, and in doing that, has no respect for you. Basically it comes down to issues of trust. If you trust her enough to handle little cards from admirers then let it go. You know your place in her life.
2007-02-13 21:23:31 · answer #2 · answered by Kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless she seems to really love a certain one, or won't throw them away after valentine's day, or the seem to have a very big impact on her, then i wouldn't worry about it! it's just like in elementary school and you get valentines from everyone in your class and some from other classes, but there are always those from the ones you "like" that stand out and you keep forever? but if she blows it off, then your fine! just give her the best gift and you have nothing to worry about!!
of course, if someone gives her a huge bouquet of roses and all you give her is a card, then i would expect her to really like the roses more than your card... it's a girl thing -not that she likes the giver. make sense?
2007-02-13 21:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girl friend receiving valentine gift she is not giving gift anybody except you so what's a matter she is follow only manner. trust your girlfriend because if you truly love her, you have the capability to let her fly. Believe is the best thing to increase or build your relation
2007-02-13 21:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't let it bother me at all, she's YOUR girlfriend. If you can't or don't trust her why are you with her? If she get's a card from a secret admirerer; i'd say that person doesn't have the cojones to do anything. That's just lame.
2007-02-13 21:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by guy o 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept the fact that you have a very appealing girlfriend and consider yourself lucky
2007-02-13 22:56:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is to trust your girlfriend because if you truly love her, you have the capability to let her fly.
2007-02-13 21:18:51 · answer #7 · answered by genius_06 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should be flattered that someone else fancies her and feel lucky that she's chosen to be with you!
2007-02-13 21:18:46 · answer #8 · answered by ChocLover 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she is faithfully to you and Love's you then I don't think you should be worried.
2007-02-13 21:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by MJane21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel like you want to feel, if your upset tell her, if she dumps you, your better off.
2007-02-13 21:19:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not her fault, so don't spoil it for her. Besides you got to remember it's you she's with and not them.
2007-02-13 21:24:44 · answer #11 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋