My husband's ex-mistress sent an email photo of her foot wearing a toe ring to my husband's yahoo account. There was no message attach except the photo. My husband have no idea what that photo meant and he never even bothered to email her back and ask. Even after the break up, she still occassionaly sms, email or call him. I asked whether the toe ring was a gift from my husband and he said no. Do u think she is trying to send a message or hint with the photo to my husband? In fact, she send the photo twice.....once to my husband's yahoo and once to my handphone!!! Can anyone give us a clue to this?
2007-02-13 20:27:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Btw, forgot to mention, my husband is no longer on speaking terms or in any way in contact with her anymore. This I can be very sure.
2007-02-13 20:29:12 · update #1
I think it's a kinda stalking personally. She is using the photo to "flirt" with him, probably in the hopes of getting him back! And what a cheek sending one to your phone (although I wonder where she got the number from???) Why not take a silly photo of something of yours, like a tattoo or your wedding ring on your finger for instance - send it with a little note saying something like "loser" or "Eat ya heart out". Then change your number so she can't get the satisfaction of responding!! PS. Change your hubby's Yahoo address too!! Revenge can be sweet!
2007-02-13 20:42:38 · answer #1 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's got to be some significance to the photo for this woman to send it. Give your husband time to ponder it. Don't keep mentioning to him and it may come to him. This is a time for him to be perfectly honest with as long as you as calm and understand that he's probably feeling guilt every day that he's with you. Help him by telling him it's OK and that you both have better things to focus on. Then ask him to let you know if anything does come to mind in the future. In the meantime, the woman, if you've already told her to knock off the messages, can be reported to Yahoo! and anywhere else she sends messages from.
2007-02-13 20:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by CaliforniaT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive always worn at leat 1 toe ring, and its not a fetish thing for me. I just look at it the same way as wearing a ring on your hand, you do it to add a bit of spoarkle. I dont paint my toe nails so i find that a toe ring can dress up a pair of open toed shoes. Plus its a bit of habbit for me, ive just always done it, but bno, i dont have a foot fettish. In fact i really cant stand the thought of other people feet
2016-03-29 05:58:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like another person mentioned here, I believe your husband has a foot fetish. His ex-mistress probably knows that. It's no big deal or anything but it is something you might look into. Instead of confronting him about the fetish, go get a pedicure and a toe ring for yourself.
If he can't get what he likes at home, he may look somewhere else.
2007-02-13 20:52:56 · answer #4 · answered by Bill I 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget about her and the email.
She is trying to get to you both and by sending you the message too this is way out of line. Dont respond to her, she has sent you something ambiguous on purpose to make either you ro your husband question it with her and therefore entering dialogue again.
No matter how much you want to know the meaning dont contact her. Delete it and any other crap she may send you..She definately playing a game.
2007-02-13 20:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by salsabrunette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!,
In India according to traditions, if a woman wears toe rings , it means she is actually married or engaged, so the ex-mistress could actually be trying to say she is engaged to another person and she sent it to you also trying to tell you that she is over your husband...
So its actually a good thing, so be happy and don't worry about it...
Just to substantiate my claim of the coveted toe ring info , i am enclosing you a link where you can confirm the same...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Toe_ring
Hope i helped :-)
2007-02-13 21:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by Kiran 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she thinks her toe ring is really sexy and will lure him back, some people do find them erotic and if she thinks it's hot she may assume he will too.
Maybe it's time for him to block this chick, sounds like she's trying to start up something and he needs to show her it ain't happening.
2007-02-13 20:55:05 · answer #7 · answered by Polly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's disturbed and still trying to get to your husband. How about you calling her and telling her not to contact your husband anymore?
2007-02-13 20:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by itry007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably just a seductive ploy to get you husband to resume relations with her, even if it is just by talking, or e mailing each other.
2007-02-13 23:51:26 · answer #9 · answered by WC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does your husband have a foot or toe fetish???
Maybe she isn't over him and knows more about his little "likes" than you do.. Perhaps they indulged in stuff he couldn't get from you... :D
2007-02-13 20:31:33 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋