2007-02-13 19:14:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes, you're analysing yourself. Just let it be. It will happen.
2007-02-13 23:06:17 · answer #1 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps u are Asexual
"Asexual- is a general term or self-designation for people who lack sexual attraction or otherwise find sexual behavior unappealing. There is debate as to whether this is a sexual dysfunction or a sexual orientation. Furthermore, there is disagreement over the exact definition of the word. The term is sometimes used as a gender identity by those who believe their lack of sexual attraction places them outside the traditional definitions of gender. There has been little research done on asexuality, but those studies that have been conducted suggest that, if it is a sexual orientation, it is among the least common."
Asexual people can still desire to be in relationships, and even be gay, bi, or straight, but they just never get to the point of desiring intimacy.
it may be that u just have never been in a situation that wud make u aroused, so even tho u find someone attractive, u dont feel sexual about it. or it cud be ur age if ur 12, 13 i wudnt worry to much about it right now.
i hope this helps!!
2007-02-13 20:52:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing's wrong with you. You've just not dated enough guys to be able to relax about being yourself with one. Also, it takes a lot of time sometimes to feel close to someone. You can be dating someone and wishing that maybe he wasn't so dull. Then in the right evening, in the right moment, you realize you've never felt closer to anyone and he becomes much more attractive to you. Or he says something so true about your feelings that you know he 'gets you' completely. This can be magical. You have to expect to date a LOT. That old saw about there being a lid for every pot is true.
2007-02-17 13:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by kathyw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to explore with the same sex.
then you will truely know for sure whether you want a gay dude in your life. sometimes it's nice to have a double income and no kids. congrats on being sure about who y ou are because nothing else matters but who you are inside and out.
Coming out is a lifelong process that takes guts and time.
It will all progress with time. don't rush it or over do it.
2007-02-13 19:23:58 · answer #4 · answered by Raver Xeno 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will, time is what you need.
2007-02-13 19:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't worry --it'll happen.
2007-02-13 21:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋