Its been 6 months now my girlfriend got married to another person. I didnt convince my parents in stipulated time and as a result i couldnt able to marry my girlfriend. Once after marriage i called her she ignored me and treated me like a stranger i got hurted.After 3 months of her marriage i called her once again, this time she even hurted me more. she told that she is happy with her marriage life, her husband cares her more and etc.. finally she told to not to disturb her marriage life. from that time onwards i never called her but recently i got message from her like your sweet heart is missing u a lot, why you have stopped calling me, we will talk to each other once again. we will meet personally. I am in confusion. All the sweet memories i had with her provoking me to call her n meet her. what to do? i love her verymuch n stilll now i love her a lot. if any one got same experience like me plz share.
2007-02-13 18:48:22 · 26 answers · asked by Feel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2007-02-14 21:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in past two times when you thought she hurt you, she was actually trying to forget the sweet memories she had with you and she wanted to deny that she still missed you. Thats why she must have said that you should not call her and she was happy in her life. But now, she must have realized that she really can not forget you and now that she has lost an opportunity to hear your voice, she is sending you the message.
But its a prudent thing to stay away. She has to move on in her new life and you have to do the same. I would advise you not to contact her. Let some time go by and she will be okay. So will you be. I have been through such phase in my life. I have all my prayers for you.
2007-02-14 05:15:30 · answer #2 · answered by havefunguy31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if she loved you she wouldnt have married the other guy!! I know in India it's different and you cant just marry someone without parent involvement, but seriously there are ways... has she never seen any indian movies :) Also once she was married you shouldnt have called her! Now you definately should not meet with her because she is a married woman!!!!!!!!!!!! If she really insists then okay but keep in mind there is someone else who will get really hurt by your both's actions (her hubby) anyway hope it works out!!!
2007-02-14 03:05:00 · answer #3 · answered by ashi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aside from the fact that she has hurt you which is hard enough, take it from me who has gone through something like this-if she wants to be with you on the side, she will do it to you at some point. She belongs to someone else now and even if she is encouraging you, try to be strong enough to stay away. Put yourself in her husband's place, would you want another man to run around behind your back with your wife? I know it is hard but what's in the past is just that-in the past. I wish you luck.
2007-02-14 02:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty crazy, both of you should just stay away from each other! She is married now! You cant just take her away she has a husband! She sounds like she just married anyone, stay away from her! Why would you even want to have anything to do with this married girl?
2007-02-14 02:59:11 · answer #5 · answered by Megz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Avoid her like the plague. Do the right thing and walk away. She made her decision and now she must live with it. It sounds like she needs counseling, not an extra marital affair.
Stop wasting your time and move on.
2007-02-14 02:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave her. It is not correct as her friend to confuse her. But it is fact that she never told you that she can marry you. As a friend, she wants her. If it is possible for you to behave like a friend without spoiling her family, there is no harm in having her as a friend but you should not confuse her.
2007-02-14 03:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by RAGHAVAN N 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Abort mission and return to base. She is playing with your emotions and you will likely end up looking down the barrel of a loaded gun if her husband finds out.... Danger!
2007-02-14 02:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by Lt. Dan reborn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She wants SEX Mate !
You Keep Off her
Its a matter of 3 peoples Life
2007-02-14 03:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont put urself through it ,,,its hard but u gotta move on... marriage is something special, u neva interfere with another couple dont cause that pain eva cause that s when ppl get hurt... u just gotta accept the fact that it cant happen and move on..
2007-02-14 02:54:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON MY FRIEND. THERE ARE LOTS OF OTHER GIRLS. HER MARRYING SOMEONE ELSE MEANS SHE WAS NOT THE ONE FOR YOU...IT WAS GOD'S WISH.
God gave you two legs to walk,
God gave you two hands to hold,
God gave you two ears to hear,
God gave you two eyes to see…
But why did He give you only one heart?
Because He gave the other to someone for you to find. She was not the one, so keep finding the right girl and don’t waste any more time on her.
2007-02-14 03:49:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋