I WAS CHECKING MY EMAIL AND MY FRIEND WROTE ME WITH GOOD NEWS AND BAD NEWS. GOOD NEWS SHE'S PREGNANT 2 MONTHS. BAD NEWS HER BOYFRIEND WAS MURDERED YESTERDAY. THEY WERE SO HAPPY TOGETHER I WAS SO HAPPY FOR HER TO HAVE FOUND SOMEONE WHO ACTUALLY LOVED HER ITS JUST SO SAD. MAKES YOU WONDER WHY. AND IT WAS SO CLOSE TO VALENTINES DAY. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO HER I KEEP TRYING TO THINK ABOUT IF IT WERE ME WHAT WOULD I WANT SOMEONE TO DO FOR ME
2007-02-13 18:44:29 · 6 answers · asked by deedy_allen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it is most comforting to have a friend by your side especially in times of grief to share with.if its not possible for you to be at her side for now then a heartfelt email or call will somehow lighten up her load.let her know that there is always a reason behind what is happening in our lives.for sure she cant understand nor accept any reasons for now but in Gods perfect time, she will understand.Pray for your friend.GOD BLESS!
2007-02-13 19:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by ilyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh god....that is so, so sad =,( !!!! ur poor friend!! she must be goin through so much pain right now. During this time, she's going to need some one to lean on. Let her know your there for her, visit her, stay by her side as much as you can, and listen to her (even if she goes on bout everything thats going on....sometimes we all just need people to listen 2 wat we hav 2 say, it'l make her feel better to kno that someone does care about what she's going through). Since she's pregnant, she's goping to need physical support to. You could help her with chores and any errands that she needs to get done. she'll appreciate your support, and knowing that she has someone to help her out and support her will put her at ease.
if you arn't able to be with her physically, then call her on the fone, n talk 2 her often. She'll be greatful 4 u.
Hope everything works out hun =)
2007-02-13 19:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by noodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there with her when she needs it the most as a friend it is almost like a responsibility to care for another friend in need. lend her a shoulder to cry on. the most important thing is that she is pregnant so she shouldn't be too stressed out as it might not be too healthy for the unborn child. just take care of her.
2007-02-13 18:52:47 · answer #3 · answered by S.T. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing you would do for her is be there for her. If you can make it to visit with her, please do. If you cant, call her regularly to check on her. If she starts talking about the loss, let her talk it out..if she cries give her a shoulder. Being there for her would be the greatest thing you would give her...I think.
2007-02-13 19:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs your *** near not just over the phone
2007-02-13 18:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just love her and be there, that's all anyone can do.
2007-02-13 19:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋