I am looking for an answer where girls will be free from burden, in India they are educated and well settled before marriage so, i need an answer where I what to know why they are compelled to get married.
2007-02-13 18:43:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no not at all . even though u have courage and clear mind about ur style of life. the present indian situation is not at all safe to be alone. And kindly note that u just cant have a nice cool walk at night alone at any day any time and any where in this country.
2007-02-15 05:18:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Even guys are compelled for marraige in India.
This is because Indian parents want to see their kids indulge into family affairs before anything else. They feel it's their responsibility to choose the right one for their kids and they feel they know when is the right time better. We can just argue that in today's world we are free to live on our own and nobody needs to tell us what to do. Also I agree to the fact that few parents commit mistakes in their decisions and the kids have to suffer. But look at the picture on other side. How many people who live their life at their own will are happy with it. They do land up in some or the other problem.
Our brain attains maturity at an age higher than the age when our body attains maturity. Now this is a trouble for parents, to take care of an immature mind in a mature body. Cos any wrong decision of yours can harm you. So instead of kids taking chances with their life, parents come into picture and take the chances.
:-)
2007-02-15 15:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is responsibility for parents that their children are well settled in society then they can live happy at the end of their life. In now a days If girl thinking about her life she can live with self independent in this society. For this she should have confidence.
2007-02-14 05:35:02 · answer #3 · answered by Rabindranath P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i think that has changed a lot un todays world ....women r ofcourse given rights to think and decide on their lives ...inspite of this if they still adhere to compelled things i think the mistake is on the girls side rather than on parents
2007-02-14 04:12:57 · answer #4 · answered by tamanaahamed 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Neena answer for your question is
a) Culture
b) Society
c) Love
I am not going to go in brief.
2007-02-14 04:09:00 · answer #5 · answered by jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it up to you if you want to marry or not being single is fun, and freedom i;m 22, single well i do have a bf and life is fine so far
2007-02-14 10:18:47 · answer #6 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents compel girls to get married so that they may not start unwed sexual activities to satisfy bodily necessary need. Unwed, premarital, extramarital physical sexual relations are not good, resulting in dissatisfied marital lives, AIDS / STD, and births of bastards/ illegitimates, who mostly think/plan/act perversely & contrary to nature, causing all mischief/disorder/ disturbance in the world. Such sexual relations put spouses in search for more betters, and destroy joyful marital lives usually resulting in divorces. High % of divorces and children of broken families are threat to the peaceful world.
Muslims firmly believe and strictly practice the teachings/commands of their holy book Quran & their Prophet, which is their Code of Life at all times/places. They have the written, clear and unambiguous teachings.
All unwed sexual activities (pre/post/extra marital), homosexual acts, & other perverted sexual acts are specifically forbidden in Islam. In Islam, it is great sin and heinous crime against government/society punishable with publicly lashing/ death by pelting stones.
There is age restriction for marriage in India, 18+ for girls and 21+ for boys. If married, the under aged , their elders and others who got performed such marriage will be punished under Child Marriage Restraint Act. However:::
Premarital, extramarital or unwed sexual activities (intercourse / coitus) are not barred / prohibited and are no offence in any Indian law. Wife’s sexual intercourse with other/s is also no offence, hence no prosecution or punishment to her. Even her sex partner also cannot be punished, if was unaware of her wedlock or had sex with consent or connivance of her husband. However the police cannot arrest or prosecute him. After divorce also her husband is bound to maintain or pay till she remarries, even if she is permanently / continuously enjoying sex with all other/s. Pre marital sexual experiences (intercourse / coitus) with other/s cannot be a ground to seek divorce under Hindu/Special Marriage Act. Thus a female’s physical sexual relations with persons/s of her choice (with their consent) is not an offence or prohibited / barred in any Indian law and she is at liberty to enjoy SEX freely and fearlessly. A male’s physical sexual relations with any 16+ female (with her consent) is no offence or barred / prohibited in any Indian Law, unless she is in the wedlock of somebody else and is done knowing her wedlock and without her husband’s consent or connivance. Courts are bound to believe that all children born during the wedlock (or within 280 days of court's divorce judgment/ decree) are her husband’s legitimate ones. He is bound to maintain or pay them expenses, till sons are 18+ and daughters are married. Prostitution (commercial sex trade, offering sex for monetary gain) alone is an offence punishable in Indian laws.
2007-02-14 11:56:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Your question doesnt make much sense!
2007-02-14 04:06:56 · answer #8 · answered by Solid 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
its cos of culture and society purely...
and your family too.... if they are orthodox...
2007-02-14 04:18:51 · answer #9 · answered by Ally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋