My best friend is 11 (12 in a week) and shes in 6th grade. Im 13 and im in 9th grade (yes were friends, its a long story). Anyways, im really really worried about her. We kinda have a long distance friendship thing going. Weve been friends since we were babies, and i moved away 2 years ago. we are still best friends and visit each other on a monthly basis usually. anyways, this year she has gone crazy!! she has started wearing heavy makeup, wearing tight clothing, telling everyone she isnt a virgin when she really is, and has gone through 10 boyfriends at school since august. i really dont want anything to happen to her, like drugs or rape or whatevers goign on in todays world, i really care about her. i have tryed talking to her about it and she just asks like "yea yea whatever" but i dont want anything to happen to her! her parents are anything BUT strict! her mom calls my mom complaining all the time saying "shes going to the mall and wearing make up what do i do??" and she wont do
2007-02-13 17:55:06 · 6 answers · asked by Delila 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try talking to her and let her know that she is giving the wrong signals to some people. Maybe you could get your Mom to talk to her mom about this. The first thing that comes to my mind is her mom is allowing this to happen and things will worsen if her mom doesn't step up to the plate and make some changes. There is really not a lot you can do except express your concerns for her safety. Good luck. She has a good friend in you.
2007-02-13 18:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by Dyan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun...its one of the worst things in the world to lose someone you luv...n to find that a person u luv is changing and u cant really do much to stop it. I've had the same situation with my bestfriend. He's a guy....so, no, he hasnt stated wearing tight clothes or make-up =P hehe...but i feel he has lost many of the morals he used to have and he is not the same person i became best friends with in the beginning. Some people say "Change is gud"....but i've never been a big fan of it. what your friend is doing is pretty intense, and you've been a great friend to her by trying to talk to her about it...
i would advise u to do 1 of 2 things...
1- keep talking to her n dont give up. she's ur bestfriend, and you'v both put alot into this friendship, and its not worth losing it over something like this.
2- Give her some space. As much as you'd like to help her, perhaps this is something she has to realise on her own. We all have our turning poits...hopefully she'll reach hers soon n mature. Just give it some time k =)
Hope everything works out hun....dont giv up on her k, she'll be thankful that u didnt wen she's older =)
2007-02-13 19:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by noodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is bad influence on you Please find a new friend that will not bring you down to her level she will be getting in to trouble and if you hang around her U will also. She may come out of this as most kids do but not till some thing bad happens. U do not want to be around her when it does and bring U down with her. If she does come of her senses U can tell her U are happy for her sorry trouble she got into and make up. Protect your self
2007-02-13 18:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by kiss4u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell her to stop, she will continue...If she says something to you that sounds like a stupid idea, just down play it, tell her only trash does that, whatever wording you want to use...Her mama needs to deal with this...
2007-02-13 18:10:40 · answer #4 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bull crap ur 13 and in the 9th grade i dont belive it
2007-02-13 18:11:19 · answer #5 · answered by kronik420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will pray for you best of luck
2007-02-13 18:21:17 · answer #6 · answered by teena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋