I had a fight with my gf and nearly broke up. We didnt talk for like a week and now we are talking again on the phone. We spoke tonight for the first time and it was really weird. I am not used to watching every damn word I say I couldnt have a normal conversation because I was being too cautious. Any advice on what to do and what to avoid? I also what do I have to do to get back on her good side? SHE SAYS WE ARE TALKING AS "FRIENDS". I want to get it back to what it was any advice?
2007-02-13 17:46:10 · 11 answers · asked by KINGPIN22 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
you're screwed
2007-02-13 17:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You'll have to resort to damage control. I don't know what started the argument but I guess it doesn't matter as long as you don't repeat what you said or did, to bring this about.
Try sending her some red roses or a bouquet of red amarilis, along with a note saying how much you love her and miss her. Say you are so sorry and will never talk or treat her that way again. Promise. Tell her you need her in your life and you feel empty without her. Say you will never get that angry with her again. That it's not worth it. She means too much to you to let things like this stand in the way of loving the most beautiful woman or girl in the world.
It may sound flowery but that is what you have to do if you want to get her back.
This should work. It usually does. What I wrote, is what we women want to hear.
I hope this helps. I feel sad for you. I know how empty inside you must feel. It's terrible when quarrels get in our way of happiness.
Good luck and I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you.⥠Happy Valentine's Day.
2007-02-14 02:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u know the fight was ur fault, apologize and admit it was ur mistake, if she accepts, then go on as before. If she doesn`t forgive u, then, Id say the relationship is over. If u have to walk on eggshells so as not to offend her, then she`s being too sensitive and ur going to end up hurting her feelings every time u open ur mouth. Don`t grovel, if u were lovers before and she now wants to be friends, don`t buy it, that only works the other way around.
2007-02-14 02:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by flamingo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My gut instinct is telling me your relationship with her is over. I do not know what your fight was about, so the only adivce I can give you is to take it slow, till you are back talking the way you used to. Don't rush her. I think she is hurting badly. So if there is any future chance of you two getting back together, it may take a while.
2007-02-14 01:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by Spikey and Scruffy's Mummy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's been a week and she mentioned the word "friends" uh oh. I think another temp might be lurking on the sidelines! Back off a bit and try to keep it light until you know fer sure!
2007-02-14 01:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by Viviana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About that fight we had you were right and I was so wrong.Please forgive me I miss you and I love you and I wanna make it up to you. I'll do anything and everything to have you by my side again.
Trust me it works on everything!
2007-02-14 01:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay friends. Its way easier and maybe later she will feel different. But don't count on it. Be ready to move on.
2007-02-14 01:53:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice to you is to post this question in the relationships category....you may get better advice from the mothers there
2007-02-14 01:53:40 · answer #8 · answered by luck fest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man if i was you i would just be yourself, i have learned not to be anything your not normaly...so say what you want to say and do what you want to do, and if she stays then good deal if she goes...let her...dont fool her by not saying things you want to say.
Good luck buddy.
2007-02-14 01:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by Ttech 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Terminate it
2007-02-14 01:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by ஐ♥Gin♥ஐ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋