I am recently divorced and went on my first date in 7 yrs on Sunday. I had lunch with her, she asked me to hang with her for the afternoon, then we had dinner too. At the end of the date we hugged and went on our way. Then she emailed me the next day with a very generic email which was nice, but nothing too deep. I really liked her and want to do something cool / original. My question is would it be weird if I got her a valentines day gift and sent it to her work and if so....what wouldn't scare her off? Thanks!
2007-02-13 17:01:20 · 14 answers · asked by fedup 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
One date does not make a relationship. I feel that V-day is more for relationships.
Just email her a friendly hello for tomorrow.
Take your time, the best relationships develop gradually - don't be desperate. This will make her all the more interested if you want to encourage her.
2007-02-13 18:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be very nice to get a something. As a matter of fact, if you didn't that would be a little rude. Even if its only been one date. If you really want to see her again send her should do something small but still romantic.
Leave one rose on her door step or on her office desk, leave her a funny/romantic email or just take her out dancing or to the movies. Something to say that you are thinking about her on this special day.
2007-02-13 17:10:28 · answer #2 · answered by mrskyesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had gone on an all-day date with someone then e-mailed him the very next day, I'm thinking I like this guy. If you wanna send her something to her workplace, send a small flower arrangement (not roses) that says something like "someone like you should always have flowers delivered on valentine's day".
Good luck!
2007-02-13 17:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by iieeeyore 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sending her a single rose with a card saying what a good time you had would be nice. A dozen roses might be a little overwhelming and I don't suppose you know her well enough yet to pick out anything really personal. Good luck!
2007-02-13 17:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by HomeGrown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it simple. Send a bouquet of flowers (NOT roses) with a card thanking her for a nice date and a p.s. Happy Valentine's Day.
2007-02-13 17:07:05 · answer #5 · answered by SA Writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do no longer think of she would be scared off except she's basically no longer into the finished Valentine's difficulty. yet i'd def save it trouble-free & flow with the candle theory perchance an trouble-free bouquet of flora no longer something over the actual or some candy,shops are crammed with small yet thoughtfull presents like what you will purchase a co-worker,instructor ect. i'm specific she will have the skill to be pleasantly shocked
2016-10-02 02:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're at bat and you don't want to swing too soon. Even though it looks as though she likes you, too, you still want to err on the side of caution. Forego the V-day gift, send her an e-card instead. It will let her know you're thinking about her and still be cool about it. I wish you the best!
2007-02-13 17:09:26 · answer #7 · answered by mpicky2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you have only had one (albeit successful) date. I would consider that too soon for an actual gift. Perhaps you could get her something small and generic, like flowers or chocolate.
2007-02-13 17:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by Christine C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same question same answer. Wait till next year! She'll head for the hills if you keep stalking her like this.
2007-02-13 17:04:23 · answer #9 · answered by rudytute 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Trust me. When you first meet a girl, flowers are risky. Take it slowly. Not too much attention at first.
2007-02-13 17:06:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋