Im a person who cant make up my mind about anything easily. Im always worried about how I look to other people. I mean at the end of the day what matters? That I am happy right? We all have to make dscisions and live with them right, dont we all hate to have what ifs in our hearts. Im always asking opinions of others, Im easily swayed from what I want to do. Is that a a sign of weakness.
Even if I have clear ideas and thoughts about something, if i find one or 2 ppl who disagree, like my 2 bestfriends. I feel like everything I felt is wrong... I feel like i should live my own life and make descions on my own stupid or not. But then I also feel liek if someone went through a particular situation that Im in, and they did certain things to make it work, I should listen to their advice.
2007-02-13 16:56:39 · 2 answers · asked by Tian 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Listening to advice and benefitting from someone else's experience is always good. However, like you said, it's YOUR life, so ultimately, you have to make up your own mind and live with it.
2007-02-13 18:41:11 · answer #1 · answered by kenny_scarface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, if you are unsure of your path, ask someone who has experience in the area that is troubling you.
However, that doesn't mean that you should take the advice given. Analyze the advice and then decide for yourself if that solution is right for you.
You are the ultimate judge of your own life. Nobody else.
2007-02-16 16:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋