My boyfriend doesn't tuch me anymore!! Before we use to do it almost every day. Now he falls asleep and he doesn't weik up. I know he has to work the next day, bu sometimes like once a week he start touching me and we do it. I feel like he loves me when we're done. But other times I try to get it started but he ignores me!! Then i think he just uses me when he wants pleassure. What can I do??
2007-02-13 16:50:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
I love him and we have a baby, i can't just find another guy!!
2007-02-13 17:04:26 · update #1
I think you should talk to him about the way you feel. The longer you take to speak to him the more worried you'll get. And it's not fair not for u and not even for your baby. As the baby can feel you frustration and it's not good. Take care.
2007-02-14 01:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not uncommon.
If you were doing it every day, he may be starting to develop "performance anxiety" and feel pressured to perform any time he touches you.
Talk to him. Ask him if he feels pressured. Ask him if he would play with you to bring you to climax when your in the mood and he's not. The same goes the other way around.
My wife and I had an agreement. No guilt feelings if she was in the mood and I wasn't, or when I was in the mood and she wasn't.
We would each satisfy the other using other means. It doesn't always have to be intercourse. Try it, you might like it.
Here's the kicker for you gals. There are a lot of guys like me who love foreplay without necessarily leading to intercourse.
2007-02-14 01:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The novelty has worn off, now it's same old, same old! Get some exciting new lingerie; wear a nurse's outfit, a leather outfit, even dress as a schoolgirl. Find out his fantasies and feed them. Get yourself a vibrator for when he is tired. Make sure he eats nutritious food; something may be lacking in his diet.
2007-02-14 01:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by CLICKHEREx 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Different people have different sexual drives. And almost all relationships have a decrease in sexual activity over time. You must either accept that you will be getting less and less sex (from him) going forward or else end the relationship. Third choice is to be a ho and make up the difference with someone/something else.
2007-02-14 01:12:06 · answer #4 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hey Girl, I think he just uses you too,I have the same issues, I just do as he does! IGNORE HIM TOO !!! He'll wake up then and wonder what's up with you! /he may be getting enticed at work like mines is.
2007-02-14 01:05:09 · answer #5 · answered by Aquarius/Purple 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's real life. If you want the bells and whistles every night, you'll never keep a boyfriend more than a year - and you certainly won't be able to sustain a marriage.
2007-02-14 01:01:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
he sounds to me he is self centered. as long as he gets his nut thats all he worries about. get you a man not a boy. boys play with toys. find someone who wants you to be pleased more so than him. me if i know she is pleased then im doing the right thing.
2007-02-17 20:33:28 · answer #7 · answered by duc602 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a heart-to-heart talk with him.
He could be depressed and need to see a doctor.
2007-02-14 01:09:47 · answer #8 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are not women and may not associate love with sex. Have morning sex instead. Have a nice Valentine's Day
2007-02-14 01:43:42 · answer #9 · answered by firestarter 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to talk to him or find an alternative to satisfy yourself.
2007-02-14 00:56:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋