my best friend and i sometimes tease that we are lesbians to our guy friends because we are always together and with those same guy friends. we are not lesbians but we are both confortable with our sexuality and our friends know we arent as well. i was wondering if this is offenive to lesbians. we are not trying to make fun of GLBTQ, some of our other good friends are gay and i havent talked about what i am asking to them. and i was just wondering
2007-02-13 16:18:16 · 12 answers · asked by i havent all the answers 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't mind it, as long as everyone knows it's a tease.
On the other hand, though, it's girls pretending to be sexually open with lesbian tendencies is a huge problem for female bisexuals and bisexuality in general- women are already all seen as being bisexual by this teasing and pretending, which doesn't help our cause at all.
But why not? I guess my question is "Why is it fun?".
2007-02-13 16:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because all the money in the world cant buy happiness. For a while it would be fun, but after a while I would want a real relationship, with a female, and I wouldn't be able to put up the front anymore. Happiness outweighs riches as far as I'm concerned. I could do it for like a year or something, but the rest of my life, heck no.
2016-03-29 05:48:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's plenty of females who think its cool for some reason to pretend to be lesbian. My opinion is linked to a question I just asked on here. I do not think people should pretend to act any certain culture they do not belong to. I'm not lesbian but I am Hispanic and find it offensive when White girls go around trying so hard to fit in to be a Latina.
As in your case, its obvious you're doing it for attention. Its sick to me because actual lesbians aren't lesbian for attention! Its who they are and don't need to be like "look at me kissing a girl!" Its just who they are. And its awful when people pretend to do that for free drinks too.
2007-02-13 16:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by ~∂Їβ~ 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sure! Acting gets old after awhile. You'll soon realize that the kind of Lesbian you are naturally is just as fun!
2007-02-13 16:23:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are not teasing lesbians by your pretension, we all have to do what we need to to get what we are after!
2007-02-13 16:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by Mark F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. If you're not a lesbian, don't act like one.
2007-02-13 17:07:53 · answer #6 · answered by Christmas Spirit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not really a good idea. It might make one of your gay friends crack on you. And that can lead to a major headache.
2007-02-13 16:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by Da Mick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just, make sure you two don't present a negative image of the community.
2007-02-13 16:37:43 · answer #8 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are just having a little harmless fun.. i don't think anyone would take offense to that..
but be careful, the last thing you want is someone spreading false rumors about you..
2007-02-13 16:28:28 · answer #9 · answered by Jeff 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you get a reputaion for being gay and you can't get a b/f and lessies hit on you, you have no one to blame but yourselves.
2007-02-13 16:21:22 · answer #10 · answered by wicca chicka 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋