What do you do after 25 years of marraige and now your alone?

Question

I dont know what to do with myself,I feel like a fish out of water. And I get sad when I see lovers exchanging affection,holding hands,hugging,kissing, and most espeacially slow dancing.I am alone 9 months now and my heart is heavy,and I feel lost. With a mixture of anger and sadness I dont know what to do. My husband was a good provider,but his porn addiction meant more to him then me.Geesh, it feels good to whine to strangers. Any suggestions as to where I meet a new friend? I wish I had a girlfriend I could laugh and cry with, go out dancing and karaokeing with, sit and talk about life with. I wish I had a man I could trust and trust loved me back. But I know wishing cant make it so. Ok got that out of my system, I feel a bit better.

Answer 1

If you work that would be a good place to start finding people to go out with and if you dont work that would be a good thing to start doing or family members to go out for lunches or dinners, but getting through it takes time and start working on yourself before getting in a relationship, being married for me I lost what I was about and who I was... dont know if this happened to you but when you get married somehow this happens, and to get out of the marriage mode its tuff but things do work out and life does change for the better with time... good luck

Answer 2

hi you sound like a very pleasent person that would be a good freind for anybody to have.after 25 years of marridge,it is sad that this come to an end.try meeting new freinds at local events,charity workers seem to be genuine freindly people.i,m sure it won,t be long before you are meeting new freinds and having fun.good luck :)