i have a neighbor that is sick, well she always claims she is an at times she is weird. On Sunday myself and my mother were going all to go to the beach an we set a time to be ready at 1:30 well 3:45 rolls by an she is finnaly ready to go upon exiting she somehow spoted a freind an claims he was going to her home to pick up some items an yelled at me to turn around i went to the next road an turned. she maintained a steady conversation with the people an said she was going to be ready in 5 min i then desided to go home an get a soda an let the dog out again about 15 min went by i didnt want to rush an saw the visitors were still there so i desided to go to the beach alone with my mom. well i stoped over her home today an she told her husband i didnt want to stop an turn around an said alot of ugly things about myself did i do the wrong thing an let her visit with friends an go to the beach alone or was she becouse she took over an hr to get ready ????
2007-02-13 16:09:52 · 5 answers · asked by rodeogirl 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she also has done this before to my family on making us hold on she even went an cleaned her home before we left to get some lunch
2007-02-13 16:19:39 · update #1
Also i am only 26 an she is in her 60s an has the tremmors an forgets if an when an where she puts her medication an then yells at us saying we put her pills in glove boxes of cars an we put them in the frig. i feel like i am going crazy i work hard 55-70 hrs a week an look foward to spend time with family an i know she doesnt have but her an her husband her kids all live up north but i cant take her anymore
2007-02-13 16:24:42 · update #2
I hear your frustration. Here's what you did wrong. You left too late. You set a time at 1:30 and instead of leaving on time, you gave this woman control over your day. Good for you though, you went without her the second time.
This woman has disrespected your time and badmouthed you to her husband. Why do you want her in your life? You are a worthwhile and precious human being. You are denying your value when you give in to this woman.
Ah, additional info. Is it no wonder her family lives far away. She is not your responsibility. Life is to short to live it for disrespectful people. Life for yourself and enjoy your loved ones. She made her own life lonely. It's not your job to fix it.
2007-02-13 16:26:00 · answer #1 · answered by teach_empathy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong in this situation. Actually, you were alot nicer than I'd have been. When I say we roll at 1:30, that means I'm pulling out the driveway at that time and whomever isn't in the car gets left. Just ask my sister. I told her that I was leaving from Memphis to return to Houston at 5 am, and I wasn't waiting on her or anyone else for that matter. At 5, I pulled out of my cousin's driveway and started on my way while she was still asleep. She called by the time I'd made to to Louisiana, and I gave her the number to Southwest Airlines so she could book a flight.
Anyway, if this woman is this inconsiderate, you really should re-evaluate your relationship with her. If she has family, then let them take her a** to the beach! Don't delay spending time with your family to accommodate her.
2007-02-14 00:44:54 · answer #2 · answered by Nille 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No dear,
'you are not wrong.
Time is a very-very important thing in our life.
one who don't care & manage time, pls don't care about them.
just feel free, relex. forget all ugly things which are said by her.
be cool.
2007-02-14 00:20:43 · answer #3 · answered by rollyk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is wrong. so what? i mean there are people like that and who cares i mean just get on with your life. i know that is rude of her to act like that and she shold be ashamed of herself. i wouldn't stoop so low as she just keep doing what you are oding no one has to wait that long.
2007-02-14 00:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What a rude biatch she is.lol
2007-02-14 00:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋