Me and my ex both want to be friends and hang out and stuff but we always get the wrong impression of what each other really wants. What can we do!
2007-02-13 15:39:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you just need to sit down and talk out your feelings and see what u guys can do to move on but still be freinds..it will be tough but it can be done. ull always feel aqward around each other and there will always be some feeling for each other but that shouldnt cause u not to be freinds. freindship is so much more important. just tell each other how u feel and work it out. if is doesnt work then maybe it wasnt met to be but if u both really wanan be freinds u will be able to work past it! start over as freinds pretend u just met. dont forget each other look past what happend. dont be scared to tell how u feel it always helps in the end
2007-02-13 15:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both getting the wrong impression, it sounds like you are each sending mixed signals to the other. Sit down and be honest with each other. It is no sin to still want your ex.
2007-02-13 23:42:50 · answer #2 · answered by Katykins 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to go from sleeping together to just being friends. The boundaries have blurred and you kind of don't know where to step. Sit down with your ex and a piece of paper. Make a list of boundaries or rules that you two are going to stick by. Such as calling before coming over, no sex, hugs only, phone calls are ok, no sexual jokes, no talk about your past, share about new dates, etc. By writing it down you will have concrete boundaries you can stick by and keeps you from being hurt.
2007-02-13 23:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
END IT , and move on your not going to be friends till you get some space between you for a time!
after 6 or 8 months then try and be honest what you want!
2007-02-13 23:59:25 · answer #4 · answered by T S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get to know each other. This way the communication channel will improve. I see this often in people who have no idea about the other person they live with. Interesting but some people like it this way.
2007-02-13 23:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by Ron H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax, and remember that you both want to be friends, and when one or the other does something that might implicate otherwise then just play it off and treat them as a friend, and remember some friends do occasionally hook up and since thathas already happened, I assume, then it shouldn't make that much of a difference... but mainly you just have to take a look a it and relax.
2007-02-13 23:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by Envy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is hard thing to do. in my experience it is just not possible. if it is going to work, you have to be very clear with each other. set the boundaries and adhere to them very strictly. try to keep any previous emotions out of the new friend relationship. that is always the tricky part.
2007-02-13 23:43:52 · answer #7 · answered by glass. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk it out. Talk to each other. Don't just assume.
2007-02-13 23:41:40 · answer #8 · answered by JADE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either date, or not be friends. You need to either go for it, or move on.
2007-02-13 23:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by LD 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just have sex and get it over with!
2007-02-13 23:42:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋