We met and she looked like a victoria secret model. After years of dating- she let it go- is this fair? I've still been doing my share... to keep fit.
2007-02-13 14:48:42 · 6 answers · asked by Claudia L. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
unfortunately we don't stay the same as er get older. get her a membership at the gym, maybe some exercise equipment. just let her know nicely how u feel about it, be supportive, not judge mental.
2007-02-13 15:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so she looked almost perfect at first. Has she had children with you? Is she depressed or something? Offer to exercise with her and go on walks with her. How much weight has she actually gained if i may ask? I feel you are being selfish and shallow here and that you should love her for all of her and not just the outward appearance and weight.
2007-02-13 22:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough one...I am of the idea that it is your job to do the best you can do to be the best you can be for your partner, including keeping yourself fit and healthy. Obviously the years are not kind to us, but you can delay it...
2007-02-13 22:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do to get her to get back into shape without offending her. I wouldn't say anything...just suggest outdoor activities that you two can do together.
2007-02-13 23:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by His Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fair for who? Did you marry her for that reason?
2007-02-13 22:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by St.Jeb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sexercise is the answer,,,,,, just bone her back into shape. and its fun.
2007-02-13 22:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by scott in minnesota 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋