I was suppose to get the whole works for v day but my boyfriend of 2 yrs says that he got me the lil stuff and the big stuff will come after v day should i be mad or suck it up n wait til the 15th but that is a special day n he knew when he got paid the friday that just past he should have saved instead he spends it am i being to ungrateful or am i suppose to feel a little disapointed? Could Someone help me out...............................
2007-02-13 14:37:04 · 11 answers · asked by Tha1 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
Oh wow, I don't think you should worry about what he got you, or how much, or when. It almost sounds like a payment plan, I'll get you the first half before the 14th, and then the rest by the end of the month! It's OK to feel a little disappointed, but don't let that be the only reason you care about each other- for the gifts.
2007-02-20 08:30:22 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet n Sour 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Opinion, wait until V-Day make sure ur not making a mistake about his intentions, if u were correct about him only getting u the lil stuff for v-day, i'd personally be pissed... And i would let him know how i feel!! Try NOT to start an argument, but be strong enough to let him know that this day was important for you and you dont think he took it as seriously as u did.....
I hope he does have a big surprise 4 u though, thats always good :-)
2007-02-13 23:01:58 · answer #2 · answered by Angelg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be too disappointed. V-day is just one day out of the year. He may be just trying to throw you off and plan a big surprise for you. But, if you receive just the "lil stuff" be grateful regardless. Do something nice for him, big or small and just enjoy the day together.
2007-02-13 22:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by doll70 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys just hate Valentines Day. You're only making it worse by insisting on a gift. It sure takes the fun out of doing something nice for someone when they're forcing you to do it.
2007-02-13 22:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by Kacky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's about love and relationships NOT money and how many or how big of gifts you get. If I was your man I would definatly leave you. You sound very immature and materialistic. Your man's love is a good gift in itself and you don't have to wait till Payday for that. Jeeeez---Grow up!
2007-02-13 23:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by tbabalicious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you have been dating for two years, why should you let something like this bother you? things happen and its the thought that counts. valentines day is about spending time with your loved one, and everyday should be just as special if you care for them. V-day is just another day..dont think about it too much.
2007-02-13 22:43:19 · answer #6 · answered by Kansha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally, i think you're being a little ridiculous and demanding. he's giving you gifts. who are you to tell him when you get something? he's giving you something on v-day anyway. he knows it's a special day, that's why he's giving you stuff. but maybe he just wanted to get you a little more, and spread it out over more than one day. i think smaller gifts over more time is way better than all at once, or just one big gift.
2007-02-13 22:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by Barbara H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's Valentine's Day not Christmas. Jeez. Give the guy a break. Just be glad he got you more than a card and chocolate. U sound spoiled lol.
2007-02-13 22:40:55 · answer #8 · answered by Millie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he actually has something amazing planned for you. You should wait & see.
2007-02-13 22:39:41 · answer #9 · answered by Gary D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it bother you! It really should not bother you at all. And I mean that.
2007-02-13 22:58:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋