I keep hearing about how for boys sex is just shallow fun and for girls it means more, but is that true? The people who have told me that are female, so they wouldn't know.
I don't really see how that would make sense. I figure there might be a difference but since girls are raised to be more prudish than boys and we run the risk of getting pregnant, we're more hesitant.
2007-02-13 14:24:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I think trying to paint half the population with one color fails to show the beauty and ugly that make up the world.
Yeah, it's true, there are a lot of guys out there that just want to screw everything in sight, hook up all for fun - then find the next one.
Other guys are out there who are romantic and will fall in love for the strangest reasons and will stay with the same girl for a lifetime.
And every color of the rainbow in between those extremes. And it's not limited to guys. Girls can have the same extremes. The whole world is made of people with different personalities and desires.
2007-02-13 14:41:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it doesn't mean anything for the girl either.... but there are some men out there that are picky and don't sleep with every girl. Because they need to like them and their personality. Not ever man is shallow... and not all girls "prudish". I know alot of girls that have sex with someone just to say they had sex with them... or just to get their nut... Men tend to use no emotion tho.
2007-02-14 01:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by JessiKa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Generally, thats probably true, because of the way males are socialized, but everyone is different. Here's a tip on how to take tips from anyone, especially your teenage friends: keep it mind, but judge individual people for yourself before making general assumptions.
Oh yeah, and be safe. And you're right, as a girl, you definitely have more to worry about when it comes to boy-girl sex, so, be very, very careful and mindful of the consequences before having sex with anyone for that matter.
2007-02-13 15:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by hal_fuentes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id say it is...but then it really depends on the person and how and where theyve grown up... Ive known quite a few ladies that love and think of sex just as much as men. As you get older youll start to find out some other girls personalities are just like men as in one-night stands, sex for fun, etc... There are alot of guys out there that think sex means more then what it is...take me for instance..i like sex, but i dont go around trying to "get-in-the-sack" with every girl i meet.. anyways hopes that helps some..
2007-02-13 14:33:50 · answer #4 · answered by garrwing 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's true. I mean I'm a guy i love sex. I'm not going to lie to you. If i could get laid by 1,000 girls id do it in an instant. The first girl i ever lost it to was a girl I date for 3 years. yes to me that was a valuable thing. I didn't want to sleep with other women at that time and i mean yes, i thought about it but no...it wasn't like i was "looking for it" I don't think it was as big of a deal for me at 15 to "loose my virginity" as it would be now. I did feel "macho" like ha i lost my virginity yeah i'm cool. But i did love this girl. Some guys are shallow and just looking for sex while others it means more but i do think guys don't think of it as a "big deal" like girls do. It really depends on who the guy is and who he's sleeping with.
2007-02-13 14:31:09 · answer #5 · answered by Mike T 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
If boys can think of it as impersonal then they aren't sensitive. You can't get closer to another human being than through sex, that should make you a little vulnerable.
Unfortunately, boys are raised to think this way, and not to value it as something only to be done while in love.
2007-02-13 15:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by A L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think sex means something to a guy, when it starts to become a more serious relationship, but I mean meet a girl at a bar or club, have sex with her. Probably dont even remember her name.
2007-02-13 17:18:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh defiantly! Men are trained from birth how not to be emotional and how to act like they got it all together rather than actually having it together. Women learn that it's OK to have and deal with emotions. Women then have to pick up the slack. So it would only be natural for men to pretend that sex means more to them but in reality it doesn't. If it did, they are too scared to stick around and deal with the emotions!
2007-02-13 15:48:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Not for me, and the fact your using "boys" and "girls" shows your age.
Men and Women?
Well i'm a "boy" and i think sex as one of the most, if not THE most, personal thing you can do with a person.
2007-02-13 14:39:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why, but yeah sorta true. Sex is like one of the only things that guys think about. Don't ask me why. But because of that it's just fun to them. I don't think it's how they're raised...
2007-02-13 14:29:00 · answer #10 · answered by Produh G 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋