My girlfriend hates my best friend. She asked me to spend a day with her but I couldnt because I had plans with my mom so I told her to postpone the date. That day I went with my mom to watch a movie and we saw my best friend there so my mom invited him along. Someone else saw the three of us and told my girlfriend, now shes's all mad at me and wont answer my texts or anything I said I was sorry and to please forgive me I sent her gifts and everything, she's being all stupid about it I dont know how else to be the bigger person. Does anyone know what else I should try?
2007-02-13 14:13:50 · 12 answers · asked by Virginnniiiaa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well Ginny, you can't please everyone. Don't worry about it too much.
2007-02-13 14:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by the Boss 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
PUT THE PHONE DOWN AND BACK AWAY!!!!!
You never text someone if there is an issue. When you see her, you need to ask her, straight up, what is wrong with you? Be assertive(not aggressive) and ask her why she is acting the way she is. If she doesn't respond then just keep on until she does. If she doesn't then speak your mind and tell her how what she doesn't is making you feel and tell her you will speak toher again when she stops acting so selfish.
The story must have gotton screwed up because she should be acting that way. And you need to let her know that.
2007-02-13 14:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by Koko Butta Kream 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a jealous and controlling person. You need to stop placating her and tell her that you WILL NOT give up your friends to placate her controlling nature. Then start planning lots of things that the three of you can do. Let her know that she WILL be nice to your friend or it is over. If she has such little respect for you that she will embarrass you with your best friend, then she should be history to you.
2007-02-13 14:33:32 · answer #3 · answered by llywarch_dindaethwy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit trying. She needs to grow up and quit being so selfish. Sounds like she wants you to be her only friend, and that's selfish.
In a relationship, or just a friendship, both need more than just the two of you. Encourage her to also find another friend.
Saran wrap is great for food, but not for suffocating relationships.
2007-02-13 14:19:49 · answer #4 · answered by Copper Jan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Git rid of her if she wont look at it from your point of view. If she is like this now what will it be like when you guys have a real problem? How much would you have to be sorry if you really did do something wrong. This means you will have to be perfect 24-7.
2007-02-13 14:19:50 · answer #5 · answered by ?? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think thats a lame fight of your girlfriend.. but maybe she doesn't know the situation like u just saw your best friend.. so maybe you need to just explain that to her and if she is not going to understand then there is nothing else u can do
2007-02-13 14:18:06 · answer #6 · answered by scytherbug@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were u I would give it a rest... Tell her if u don't trust me than fine, I don't want u to be in my life. I would make her jealous so she comes to u. Pretend to go out with ur best friend. Then if she likes u she would come back to u.
2007-02-13 14:19:34 · answer #7 · answered by tanica_46 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Drop her. Who needs a friend like that? What an ordeal!
2007-02-13 14:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is insecure.
2007-02-13 14:17:43 · answer #9 · answered by NKB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she can't believe you!!!No need to keep her!!!
2007-02-13 14:31:35 · answer #10 · answered by Dotr 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋