I hurt my man really bad. I lied to him a lot. I came on to him friends in from of him when i was drunk. I tryed sudctioning his friends in front of him. I didn't realize what i was doing in front of him. ? I never did that before when i was drinking. I went to a classmate's house after he told me not to go because i didn't know him at all i just had met him a few days before. The guy had hurted me really bad that i was crying after he had really rough sex with me that i couldn't even move off the bed. I kepted on telling the guy to stop that he was hurting me i was screaming really lound trying to push him out of me but i couldn't get him out of me i was telling him no it hurts a lot stop he would listen to me. He kepted on going like i didn't say anything to him. He kepted on going deeper. It felt like he raped me his friend saw the all thing happened. He wanted his friend to join in with him like i wanted a 3 some. He was saying to his friend that i liked being told want to do.
2007-02-13 14:11:56 · 9 answers · asked by sexycutenicelatinaepettiewoman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all, if you tell a guy no and forces himself on you - that is called rape. You should report him to the police and file charges. You should also get into counseling so you can work through it.
As far as your boyfriend goes, it sounds like he was looking out for you but you ignored him. The only thing you can do is talk to him, tell him what happened, and try to make a fresh start. Another smart thing for you to do would be to NOT drink. Seems like you do stupid things when you are drunk.
2007-02-13 14:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW the question took a different direction than what was intended. I first want to say you were raped, Period! I am sad this has happened to you. My question is what did you do about that?
As far as your man goes you know they say a drunk mouth speaks a sober mind. It may be something you've been wanting to do anyway. That is very embarassing and I would be very pissed off. Now you will be in the doghouse forever. If he loves you he will forgive you eventually. You just have to be patient and try to realize the extent of his pain. Put yourself in his shoes and then think of how you would want him to regain your trust.
2007-02-13 14:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by nobodybetta_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 09:39:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would file a police report. Sounds like rape to me. There should be a charge fo what he did even if it is not rape. You asked him to stop and it only got worse. Good luck.
2007-02-13 14:16:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you can love each other again. it will be hard to gain the trust but that is something you will have to work on all over agian. mayby you should take a break for a few months from him. i bet you will miss each other
2007-02-13 14:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by elaine d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont expect him to just trust u, earn his trust again. Show him that he can trust u. Also get counseling for your rape. U can find a crisis center in your area. Please. Good luck
2007-02-13 14:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by Sophi C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMFG thats horrible! just tell him all the lies you have ever said to him and that u love him (if you do) and hopfully that will work...and i am so sorry about the whole sex thing :(
2007-02-13 14:17:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lady you where raped
file charges and seek help
2007-02-13 14:18:07 · answer #8 · answered by outlaw64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him jelous it worked with my girl
2007-02-13 14:16:00 · answer #9 · answered by Jack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋