And if so, did it affect your relationship, and how? Please answer only if you've experienced it and not to just give judgement.
2007-02-13 14:02:22 · 6 answers · asked by meh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My wife and I have had many threesomes, both FMF and MFM. They've all been great (except one, and that was a problem with the other male being an a**). They've done nothing but make us closer. It is just another side of the great sex we have together. It's an extension of our great sex life, and our relationship. We both love seeing each other having a great time. In fact, my wife having a great time is essential to me having a great time. She's my favorite pornstar. :-)
Basically, we are secure enough in ourselves, in each other, and in our relationship that we can be honest with each other about our fantasies and dreams. We don't have to worry about the other being offended by them because we are not insecure. We've had sex with others and still love each other more than ever. The door has been held open for either of us to leave, and neither of us step through it. I know my wife is with me because she wants to be. She has a choice, and she stays.
That's because we can have good sex with anyone, but we can only have the other stuff that makes a relationship with each other. Stuff like being best friends, companions, partners-in-crime, and knowing each other's deepest darkest secrets that nobody else ever has known, and still thinking each other is the best thing since sliced bread.
This is something that many will never understand because they are totally focused on the sex aspect of their relationship. We're not. Sex is part of our great relationship, it's not our total relationship.
2007-02-14 03:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a long enough attention span to look at videos for more than 4 or 5 seconds, but if this is a question about smoking weed, then my answer is yes. Getting stoned is one of the few things my wife & I can still do together without wanting to gouge each other's eyes out. It's what helps keep a fantastic marriage like ours thriving!
2016-05-24 08:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A boyfriend and I did , and I've experienced it with 2 guys who where friends (they didn't interact), as well as 'moresomes'
If your relationships is solid, and there's no insecurity or jealousy, adding additional playmates (singles or couples) can be fun and add variety and spice to your sex life...however otherwise it can really cause problems.
Be sure it's something you both truly want to do (one didn't coerce or convince the other to try it) and that the relationship is as solid as it can be...and of course, use protection with others and be safe!
2007-02-13 14:09:54 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With my ex boyfriend. Our relationship fell apart afterwards. It was fun doing it, but then he got jealous and accused me of having too much fun with the other girl and ignored him.
2007-02-13 14:19:54 · answer #4 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I have and it did not affect me but it did the spouse they left shortly afterwards seems I had to much fun during it
2007-02-13 14:36:32 · answer #5 · answered by billc4u 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you can be guaranteed that it will play on your mind - for a long time. Its heard to describe, I thought that it would'nt bother me but when your partner is touching another woman, you cant help but feel sick.
2007-02-13 14:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋